There are people who appear in our lives as if by magic. They are wonderful coincidences of happiness, they are loves that do not last, and you have to know how to let go, live in balance?
Do you have to have courage and be completely convinced of that?Is this relationship, friendship or situation vital to our balance and happiness.
- Recognizing the need to close a cycle is already an act of maturity.
- However.
- The act of recognition is a very difficult and sad step; it’s like winning a personal duel.
Letting go, in most cases, is a reconstruction. We have to think about it and often start over.
But we must also keep in mind that many people end up not accepting and treating the end of a cycle properly.
Some people think that ending a relationship ends with life. After this farewell and separation, there’s nothing else. Letting go is the act of fate that closes the curtain of your emotional life.
We have to be careful with these kinds of defeatist thoughts and attitudes. After an end, new paths and opportunities are opened for us to be happy as we wish.
Today we invite you to think about it
At the beginning of the article we talked about courage and conviction, however, the act of letting go incorporates many more dimensions, many more personal strategies that are worth living.
We may have believed for a while that a certain person appeared in our lives because fate wanted it that way.
In love you must keep your feet on the ground, the attentive heart and the wings of your personal growth wide open. Emotional relationships are not nourished by magic, but from the well-being, commitment and illusion of day-to-day life.
Fate is based on him? And if you don’t feel happy or excited right now, avoid being the eternal prisoner of suffering, your destiny and your inner voice take another path: that of your well-being.
Don’t be afraid to say aloud that you too have needs, no one is selfish to ask for respect, have the need to be heard, loved and cared for.
Sometimes, when things don’t go well, instead of becoming aware of our emotional suffering, we cling to certain aspects:
? Fear: fear of what will happen if I do or say it, afraid to be alone, afraid of mistaken, fear of change?
? It is often thought that it would be better to “wait a little longer” because it is possible for things to change, for the relationship to improve, but time passes and none of this happens. Nothing changes.
Don’t be afraid to recognize your own emptiness, or even say out loud what you need to be happy. Is there no pride or selfishness, but a courageous sincerity and emotional maturity?
Needs are part of our self-esteem, personal growth and well-being
If you do not see yourself as a complete and happy person, do not destroy your integrity; React Closing this step?Let him go.
They say that we always remember the perfect friendship that we end up losing or the love that hurt us so much, and that we have since changed inside.
It’s possible. However, none of these past events should mark the end of our lives.
Just because someone has failed you in the past doesn’t mean you shouldn’t refuse to maintain new friendships, and because someone has hurt you, you can’t let your heart freeze and sink into despair.
Focus on yours here and now. No one has their destiny, no one has the right to end the book of their life. Letting go is opening up a space for new and better things to happen.
Always listen to the inside of your heart, because that’s where the truth of your feelings lies. Are they the only ones who listen with maturity, balance, wisdom?And a lot of courage.