Love movies love us, but some of us come across one?But? Quite remarkable: they end when the relationship has just begun. The routine or difficulties most couples face are very unreactive to represent in film.
This kind of reality, which is nothing more than the truer, is the passion of the “naughty sister”. However, it is the problems, blows and crossroads of life that will determine whether a conventional union of two lovers can become an extraordinary union.
- Dreaming of having a relationship in which the mental representations of one person or another never change is like showing a child a piece of wet sand in his hand.
- Without giving him the opportunity to know the sea.
- Embraved.
- Dangerous.
- Exciting.
- Calm.
- Depending on the strength of the tides.
In the experience of marital life they are not able to master all the variables of the environment and, therefore, it is good that couples develop communication channels that serve to turn difficulties into shared problems, so that their resolution can bring them together even more. Here are some of the emotional and vital challenges couples face:
During this process, the relationship can be affected because the family’s sleep and life plan have been affected, which can lead to imbalances between parents.
Clinical psychologist Susana de Cruylles, coordinator of the parent program at universitio Prencipe hospital in Asturias, says it is important that parents, in the same way that they have reached an agreement on the formation of the family and the education of their children, try to go through this process together.
Couples will go through various stages, but sometimes the hard blows of life are responsible for determining that a stupid or crazy love turns into consummate love. Would it be appropriate to recommend the movie The Painted Veil? To understand these phases of love: a true love movie that was not meant to be romantic.
Because love in the couple is much more exciting when it goes through difficulties that are overcome, because there are rare occasions when difficulties are not encountered, and because life is not lived from the mental representations we have, we must assume and overcome obstacles and tragedies with the desire to be together, for there are situations that, far from breaking the union of two people who love each other , transform relationships into something truly extraordinary.