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With emotional maturity, you learn the difference between reaching out and helping a soul. You learn that love doesn’t mean support and that business doesn’t always mean security. You’ll start learning that kissing is not contracts, no gifts, no promises.
- You will begin to accept your defeats with your heads up and look before you.
- With the grace of a child.
- Not with the sadness of an adult.
- You will learn to build all your paths in the present.
- Because the terrain of tomorrow is uncertain for your projects and the future is used to falling into the void.
You learn that the sun burns if you remain exposed to it for a long time, you accept that even the right people can hurt you and that you have to forgive them.
You will learn that speaking can relieve the pain of the soul. You’ll find that it takes years to build trust and a few seconds to destroy it, and that you can also do things you’ll regret for the rest of your life.
Learn that true friendships continue to grow, despite distance; and that it doesn’t matter what you have, but who you have in life, and that good friends are the family we can choose.
You’ll learn that you’ll have to change friends if you’re not willing to accept friends changing. You will discover that you can spend a lot of time with your best friend doing anything; or just nothing, just for the pleasure of enjoying your company.
You will discover that we often ignore the people we care about most; So you always have to tell them how much you love them, because you never know when you’ll last see them.
Learn that circumstances and environments influence us, but that we are solely responsible for what we do.
Learn that you shouldn’t compare to others, except when you want to imitate them to do better. You will discover that it takes a lot of time to become the person you want to be and that time passes fast.
You will learn that no matter where you come from, but where you go; and if you don’t know where you want to go, anywhere will serve you, you’ll learn that you’ll either control your actions or they’ll control you, and that being flexible doesn’t mean being weak or lacking in personality, no matter how delicate and delicate. fragile can be: there are always two sides.
You will learn that heroes are the people who did what is necessary, no matter the consequences.
You will learn that patience requires a lot of practice. You’ll find that sometimes the person you plan to kick when you fall may be one of the few people to help you get up. Maturity has more to do with what you’ve learned from your experiences than with your years of experience.
You learn there are a lot more parents in you than you thought. You learn that you should never tell a child that your dreams are stupid, because few things are as humiliating as that. Besides, it would be a tragedy if she believed, because you’d expect her.
You learn that when you feel angry you have the right to feel it, it’s emotional maturity, but it doesn’t give you the right to be cruel to others.
You will discover that just because someone does not love you the way you want it does not mean that they do not like you because there are people who love us, but do not know how to show it. It is not always enough. be forgiven by someone; sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
You learn that with the same severity with which you judge, you will also be judged and sometimes condemned.
Learn that no matter how many pieces your heart has broken, the world won’t stop to fix it.
You will learn that time is not something you can go back to; So grow your garden and decorate your soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
So, and only then, will you really know what you’re capable of
You’re strong and you can go much further than you thought when you thought you couldn’t go on, life is well worth it when you have the courage to face it.
Unknown author
The author of this letter does not matter, because there is no guarantee that it has been written by Borges, Shakespeare or Benedetti, what really matters is what teaches us and how it reflects what life and emotional maturity teaches us.
I like to say that it is a letter that life sends us all the time, in it our experiences tell lessons designed to teach us to live our own history with pride and wisdom.
It is therefore a letter full of sincere emotions, painful learnings and open to different interpretations. We all know that we have already made all the mistakes here, but have we stopped to think about it?In our emotional maturity?
It is an invitation to reflection, because the time has come to create emotional maturity. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but now it is our greatest gift. It’s time to get rid of the emotional baggage of our past and live in the present.
Prisoner image of Shawna Erback Studios