In life we cannot predict most of the facts that really surprise us, even when we take the precautions we consider necessary in our attitudes, or even when we feel prepared for the most complex situations, they, as if by magic, take us ahead. Surprise.
It is true that on many occasions we receive life alerts, by various means, from external signals from people, events or even from our intuition that shows us a thread of risk, but for too much confidence in our abilities, or for taking care of ourselves. of ourselves, we end up hesitating and encounter some of the somewhat awaited surprises, which despite their importance and annoy or cause harm and suffering, do not take the word we would never have imagined.
- In these contexts.
- There are not only facts.
- But words we hear from those we never thought we would say.
- And we are so surprised that they can be both pleasant and deeply aggressive.
- Sometimes leaving scars on the soul for life.
- There is also the expression of feelings.
- Which can also leave us perplexed by their fury.
- Their indifference.
- Or in the clouds for their beauty and spontaneity.
We insist, albeit unconsciously, on the illusion of having control of life in all its areas, because we take good care of ourselves with health, either in economic life, in personal or professional relationships, as if everything were absolutely in our hands.
We conclude, most of the time, that we have control over a person’s feelings through his attitudes toward us, or simply because of too much confidence in the certainty that we are loved. We spend much of our lives doing projects, trying to define what the future will be with the conviction that nothing goes wrong, because we do everything correctly from our point of view, even because life itself confuses us with everyday realities. We don’t even know if we will be, but we certainly can’t ignore this preparation, no matter how small.
There is nothing wrong with making plans for the future considering our expectations and desires, especially since projects are part of a healthy living program, without which we run out of horizon, but it is not at this point that I want to focus. , but in the false illusion that we have control of life, often seeking in material goods the power to control it in the blink of an eye, without seeking with more zeal immutable values with which we must work well within ourselves in order to experience better. surprises on the way in our lives, in the awareness that this is not entirely foreseeable by us, human behavior itself is by no means predictable, we can imagine that in the face of a certain obstacle, we behave, and when this happens, we act in a way that surprises us, both positively and negatively.
If we analyze that nothing happens 100% in our lives in all our ways, no matter how hard we try, we will see that this has a good side, because it leads us to get to know each other better and to face the surprises that it brings us. They can be good and bad, but we have to be more flexible with the bad guys because they talk painfully. However, they contribute to better reflection and vision of life, and it is these unpredictable facts that somehow change the predictable path that awaits us. We have charted for our history, giving us great opportunities for growth, if not materially spiritual, or times until we can both understand the experience.
It is unpredictable events that awaken us to see life with a more real perspective, to question acts that seek change within ourselves and in the environment in which we live. To live without so many certainties in our predictions is to seek to prepare ourselves to better face the surprises, which are part of life, and all are confronted with these facts at some point, no matter who we are or where we are. In sight, some unpredictable events that we would like to remember forever, and there are those that, if possible, would be erased from memory.
For those who for most of their lives have worked and made their heritage in a predictable plan for the future, pointing to a carefree middle age, with the certainty that everything has been done correctly, any other event becomes unacceptable, but no one is. free of such a fact, nor be absolutely sure that everything will go exactly as planned, in the measures taken.
There are totally uncontrollable cases, in which the unpredictability of life is tested, and this is an example among many. No one will be optimistic about events like this at first, but if there is an awareness that life is not under our control, we will know how to overcome ourselves by considering ourselves a much older person, and from experience, we understand greatness. to live and grow with all this, that’s where we live.
And here is what we must be the most jealous and attentive in the trajectory of existence that is our time, the good feelings, the lessons learned, the peace of the soul, the gratitude of being here with so many opportunities to be better at everything. , and the love for beauty that is life, so that we can pass with serenity all the challenges and glories of life, and when the end of the road comes for all in its time, we can feel the greatest pride of having made and be the best example of life for someone very important in this scenario :?Your?!!!.
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