They say that life is short, that it happens in the blink of an eye and that when we realize that we live longer than the past and its memories than what happens around us, in the present and now.
But the truth is that without fearing the fleetingness of our existence, we fear the mistakes, the falls and the moments when we get lost along the way, yet the scariest thing is the possibility of an irrelevant life. other people’s projects and dreams
- Sometimes it takes us a long time to realize that the life we have been living for a long time does not make us happy.
- At first we let ourselves be carried away.
- Perhaps out of love.
- Perhaps by hopes and illusions that are gradually collapsing in the form of lies.
- Perhaps for something that they once promised us but never came true.
There are many ways in which life passes without color with others, sometimes they are family members, sometimes they are spouses, in any case, it is something that we cannot allow.
Few things are as personal and different as how we really want to live life, and no one should try to put it in a frame, paralyze it with an anchor, or direct our own candles to take us on their own paths.
You are all your values, your dreams of yesterday and your desires of the present. Your choices, your morning illusions and your sadness in the afternoon. Is that what you’ve achieved so far and what you’re going to accomplish?allows others to blur their identity and put on their shoes without their permission?
We must walk this path called life in the most sincere way possible: in freedom, without hurting the heart and without noise in the head.
There is no reason to be afraid of life, we must enjoy it with joy and fullness, and if recently none of this makes sense, if when you open your eyes in the morning you are overwhelmed by many negative emotions, you may not be living the life you desire. Maybe he’s playing in the play that others have written for you.
Some assume, without knowing very well why, the role of controller of a marital relationship. The other person can only spin like a satellite around a planet.
And this happens at first out of love, because we are full of illusions and these last for a while, making us unable to see the details that characterize a poorly functional relationship.
It’s not about maintaining a life untethered, untethered, with no relationships and no one by our side, it’s about being aware that we shouldn’t consider anything like our property, nobody’s.
Since I am nobody’s and no one belongs to me, I choose you, freely, to walk with me by the hand, so that we may be owners and creators of our own happiness.
There are situations in the family context, with possessive mothers or fathers, in which we end up living extraterrestrial lives that others have created for us, but emotional and marital relationships are the most common territories where this type of dependence and coercion occurs.
To live a happy and fulfilling life, we must not be linked to one or more people, it is better to stick to one goal: happiness, because it is the goal that will make us differentiate who deserves us and who does not. and whoever makes us suffer doesn’t deserve us.