I’m the only one who can change my life. No one can do that for me. Carol Burnett
Certain aspects of our way of being, such as our behavior, our physical image or even life, are impossible to change, suffering by aspects that have been given to us by chance and that we cannot change over time does not make sense, in these cases ACCEPT YOU with all its flaws and weaknesses and BE ABLE to differentiate what we can and what we cannot change , are the first lessons that we must put in our minds to increase self-esteem so that we can value other innate virtues and qualities that we can also have.
- When we realize that we do not like something around us and that the power of change is in our hands.
- The best thing we can do is try to change.
- Otherwise sooner or later.
- The frustration of having consented and accepted harmful or negative situations will wreak havoc.
Resignation is one of them. It’s like a crack in the road, and if we just accept that crack, we’ll start filtering out only dissatisfaction. It will reduce self-esteem and provoke self-appreciation.
Our size, the color of our eyes, as well as the past, can hardly be changed, but at the same time that we must accept these circumstances, we must also strive to achieve all that is most valuable, because in this way it will live without stones or cracks. Our way. In other words, we will seize opportunities and live by our true feelings, changing only what is possible: feelings, if we are not satisfied.
The consequences of being who you really are implicitly accompany the lack of importance of other people’s opinions, fear not criticism or disapproval, and above all, always seek to achieve common harmony, showing that we are proud to choose to be what we really need to be, feeling that we have more courage to think, without fear, in every choice that envelops our path.