There are many types of toxic people: envious, jealous, possessive, pessimistic, authoritarian, manipulative, etc. , that we have to live every day at work, in groups of friends or as a family.
The secret so that these people do not influence us negatively is in us, in our attitude and in knowing how to treat them. Letting our thoughts invade, not letting ourselves breathe or get upset is something that, if we want, we can avoid. Learn to protect yourself from toxic people.
- “Do we often allow gossip.
- Envious.
- Authoritarian.
- Psychopaths.
- Proud.
- Mediocre.
- To enter our inner circle?In any case.
- Toxic and wrong people who constantly evaluate what we decide and what we do.
- Or what we stop deciding or doing.
-Bernardo Stamateas-
“I feel so bad by your side. It makes me uncomfortable, I’m not myself. I always see an air of suspicion. If I feel a small victory of my life, even if it happened and without much sorrow, I feel like I’m jealous, uncomfortable, irritated.
I feel like she’s not happy with anything good that’s happening to me. Looks like you’re always in some kind of competition, like kids when they say “I have more. “And I? I let myself be infected.
The truth is that I am deeply relieved when she is not, I am myself, I feel happy, I do not have to hide who I am, nor the good things that happen to me today, so what am I supposed to do??
This person is not positive for me, but common ties bind us together and it is not so easy to avoid their presence. One way or another, it’s always present in my life. I think I’m even obsessed with this situation. ?
It’s the story of a person who has a relationship with someone who finds it toxic. Fear, insecurity, discomfort, helplessness or sadness are emotions induced by toxic people.
In general, can people who are influenced by or live with some of them have toxic people, can they be overwhelmed by some kind of feelings of oppression, impulse and exuberant discomfort when they are with them?
Stay away from people who only come to share complaints, problems, disastrous stories, fears, and judgments from others. If someone’s looking for a can to throw trash in, don’t leave it in your mind.
-Dalai Lama-
When you really feel that toxic people no longer affect you, can you really be happy with yourself, and is that what really matters? The ability to be yourself, despite the circumstances?