There are situations where it seems impossible to follow, where everything gets complicated and concentrates so as not to make you raise your head, however, many situations only get complicated because we see them like this, moving forward is easy when you dare to get out of your own prison.
It’s common to see people exaggerate everything that happens to them and get nervous because they don’t have under control the outcome of every decision they make, do you know what things will be like before they start or prepare for the near future?At least try, is it a constant frustration of life for many people, but do we really have to complicate the present so much to predict everything that will come?
- Life can be much simpler and not without opportunities.
- Trying to control and control everything is an impossible mission.
- Depriving us of great moments and the opportunity to meet.
- Meet and surprise us.
Life has so much more to offer you than your mind can conceive of, why lock yourself in the prison that involves controlling and planning absolutely everything?It’s not about going aimlessly or without awareness, it’s about leaving the door open so that luck is available, because it will be available in the same way, so if it’s bad, most of the time you can choose between suffering or facing.
But how do we identify this path? Listen and he will give you the clue, if you are able to be honest, to silence the voices that tell you what to do or that tell you what is [politically] right, you can hear your inner voice. And when you sit down you have to do something off the plane, something different, don’t resist, explore what your inner voice requires. Decipher what you need and find a way to do it, within your means.
But most of all, trust the road. Only then can you enjoy and enjoy it, only then will you find the means of expression you need to convey your emotions and feelings, grow, be yourself and move on.
Many times, our full potential is contracted in a prison from which we ourselves hold the key, but why are we doing this?Why do we design a life that cuts off our wings instead of continuing to fly, why, having so much potential, do we submit to a mediocre life?
The truth is that the idea of living with everything controlled and planned seems very comfortable, however, at the same time, being comfortable can be very difficult, to open the doors of your cell, starts by getting rid of that narrow vision that does not allow you to look and move forward, which does not allow you to contemplate all the opportunities available to you.
It is true that this awkwardness usually comes from past experiences, suffering and pain carry our emotional backpack with fears, complexes and limiting beliefs, but how about turning this heavy emotional backpack into a toolbox?
It is one thing to know that you have the key and another to have the courage to use it to open the door and get out, fear hides behind every decision we make, the fear of failure, the unknown, not to be good enough, to confuse our way or to be judged, slows us down.
However, doing nothing is the best way to feel remorse, to die without having lived. Are you afraid of failure, but not of losing the chance to succeed?Are you afraid to make mistakes and not lose a good idea?Are you afraid of failing, of being judged, but without fear of your opinion of yourself in the future?
Don’t let fear guide your actions and you’ll never regret making an important decision. Even if you fail, even if you make a mistake, every step is important in your personal growth. Will each step bring you closer to your goals, even if this step is a mistake, and give you the opportunity to give way to your freedom to make courageous decisions?
Your prison is your comfort zone. Nothing’s stopping you. Go out and open yourself up to the world. Your comfort zone will stay where you left off if you have to go back. Don’t forget you have the key. You’re free to go and come back, too.
You have to risk putting one foot outside, then another, if you think you’re doing the right thing, take a chance, you don’t have to jump suddenly if you’re not ready, do it step by step. By doing this, you will feel much safer and, most importantly, much better about yourself.
Uncertainty about risk plays its own role. As you get used to this uncertainty, as you learn to handle it, fear will give way to curiosity and a desire to move forward and go further and further.