Have you ever found yourself doing what you have to do and not what you want?You’ve been in a relationship a long time that someone else might be jealous of, but that just doesn’t satisfy you?Do you have the job your neighbor would like to have, but that you feel like a sacrifice or an obstacle?do what you’d really like to do?
In life, you meet people who smile all the time and are satisfied with their work, even when they earn much less than you, or when their work is much harder than yours. What about those people who enjoy life without complaining entirely about adverse situations?out of your control? This sounds like an irony of life, but?
- Actually.
- It’s no secret.
- There’s nothing better than being free to be happy.
- And being free means doing what you really want.
- Doing instead of doing what you have to do.
- Courage? Don’t work on what you don’t like.
- Even if your parents or best friend have told you you’re the best.
- Work for you.
Being free means having the courage to end a relationship that doesn’t get you anywhere, even when you make the decision to spend time without a partner and learn to be alone to find the right person.
It is your main right: to have the freedom to be yourself, regardless of what others think; do what you really love, gladly.
But how do you change the meaning of your life when it seems like everything has to be programmed? one of the most practical ways is to start by wondering what you really want to do, it’s about sorry to stop pleasing others instead of having fun. Stop imitating your cousin, who’s like a sister, instead of looking for your own alternatives. It’s about shether to stop meeting other people’s expectations rather than meeting your own. It’s about finding your own meaning in life.
A hands-on exercise for? Pause our own pattern of beliefs: imagine that you are under no pressure from anyone or anything. No one opposes their tastes, nor is they bound by urgent economic needs. What would you do?
Of course, we all have different class pressures and responsibilities to fulfill, we are not isolated and we cannot always do what we want, but putting you in this hypothetical scenario will allow you to discover what your true desires are, your dreams hidden under everything. this entanglement, duties, opinions and external pressures. You may not be able to fulfill all your desires today, but at least you will be clear about your purpose in life, your inner vocation.
The world doesn’t stop when you leave the job you spent five years of your life with the feeling that you have to do your duty, there’s always a way to turn your profession into something you really love and can do with pleasure. How many people can really say they work because they like it and not out of obligation?
It doesn’t matter if as an adult you start doing something you dreamed of, the sport that excited you as a child, or an artistic activity you could never do because it was out of your league.
When you hear your intuition, when you’re able to connect with your true essence, you’ll know what you really want to do, and you’ve taken the big step to enjoy your life as it really deserves.
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