I didn’t find him, but I didn’t look for him either? I always thought things were just happening. I couldn’t find that person who would change my world and make me think it’s worth walking together.
Do I recognize that there have been attempts? But they disappeared like clouds of smoke. I live my celibacy with joy.
Who was to blame If we can say “guilty. “
In those cases there is no culprit, life is like this, but I feel happy, I have many projects and many things to do in my life, I have many friends, people who appreciate me and really love me.
“It’s better to be alone than dissatisfied with someone. “
? Marilyn Monroe?
I know many people who have managed to find this love and, despite the years, routine and differences, today they remain happy.
I’m still with my life, some would say stagnant, but that’s their problem, not mine.
I feel happy with myself and I no longer need to seek love like I did when I was younger.
I even think I could write a funny book about my adventures; all my attempts, some intentional and others by surprise, but always with the illusion that it was true love, my life partner.
I have often felt pressured by society, which considers marriage to be the ideal state; that’s what we have to do when we get to a certain age.
But at this point I ask myself: what is normal? It is probably the conventional one, the one established in different societies. But I never cared what others might think or speak behind my back.
What really interests me is being happy, alone or with someone. Not in vain do people say, “More than bad company, but better company if the business is worth it. “
So I continue to live life as it is, having fun with my friends, enjoying the sun, the sea, the opportunity I have to wake up every day and show that I can see, hear, fight and be happy.
? Enjoy everything you’ve got. You are not well because you have a partner or because you do not have a partner, in any case the comments will exist. Then analyze your situation well and learn to be happy with yourself.
? Let go of the old conventions; Life is not how it used to be Single, married, in a relationship or in a relationship? The important thing is that you are satisfied with what you have.
? Don’t idealize the other person’s situation and don’t underestimate them so you feel better.
? Have you ever stopped to think about the wonderful things you missed while you care about having a partner or not?The only person who will be by your side forever is yourself. Then start having fun.
? Choose special people to be a part of your life: family with which we have many affinities, friends that we know throughout life and who contribute a lot to our existence, do not let such special people escape us.