Mommy, I can’t lose you. I don’t want to, I deny myself. I need you to take care of yourself, I need you not to give up, to fight with you, to keep your smile, to speak to me kindly, to keep your brilliing, to protect your essence.
Then I’m asking you, Mom, not to give up. Even if I have to face a thousand and one battles, you have my sword, a sword forged in the purest, deepest and most enduring love I can wield in my entire life.
- Together we move forward and overcome any obstacle that stands between us and the path of our lives.
- So Mom.
- I ask you not to leave me.
- To stay strong.
- I promise I will be by your side to take care of you for the duration of our journey to this world.
I am aware that according to the law of life it is possible that I will have to live without your presence, but I can assure you that you will always be (ALWAYS) with me, but doesn’t that diminish my fear?
“The worst thing about mothers is that they die before we can give them back some of what they did.
They leave us helpless, guilty and hopelessly orphaned. Fortunately, there’s only one. Why wouldn’t anyone bother losing him twice?
Isabel Allende
In fact, I am fully convinced that our inner child is not afraid of monsters, nor darkness, strangers or chaos, what they fear is losing their attachment, their reference person, we fear that our memory will not remember their smell. , that our eyes will not be able to see your hair and that our heart will not be able to feel its warmth.
That is why it is essential to enjoy every second at your side and that we help you to heal as a woman and grow fully as a person, because throughout her life the woman assumes a great list of roles: mother, daughter, girlfriend, wife, wife. Etc. And there comes a time when we find an infinite number of connected priorities with which it is necessary to recompose pieces of life.
Discovering these roles is very complicated when you consider that you live in a society that imposes certain obligations on women, simply because they are women.
Thus, if we combine the social imposition of the role of victim with the woman who is also a mother, with the very difficulties of life that arise, we will obtain a highly explosive cocktail that can cause intense suffering of the figure that stopped. for us.
This pain to which our mothers are subjected is extremely heartbreaking for us as children, that we see our mothers in difficulty whose strength is weakened, however, through this difficult process, it is inevitable that at some point children will change roles and become “mothers”. parents of their own mothers. ” By assuming this role, we seek to protect them and prevent them from suffering.
We become parents for the first time, who fear that their child will fall off the swing, so, as children, we must become protectors. We function as a machine that restores the vital inertia of an injured person. Then we realized the immense power that exists in the female world and, above all, in the mother.
Anyone who has experienced a similar situation knows that it is not easy to deal with, but that it certainly leads us to take several steps on the scale of emotional growth, the emotional obligation to protect our own mother when we feel vulnerable gives us a conscience. that’s very powerful in itself. At the same time, it wears down, hurts and breaks our own inner balance, even if only momentarily.
People are never prepared for the loss of their own mother and thus discover in themselves a great force that allows them to go further and become the angel who heals the wounds of a wounded mother. Then something wonderful happens in our own inner world, because the warm gaze of our inner child learns to live with the consciousness of an adult, certainly one more step towards maturity.