Over the years, loneliness takes on a different flavor, why?Because as we add experiences we come to that moment when loneliness becomes synonymous with personal, intimate and emotional space.
Of course, loneliness becomes an addiction. Once you discover the peace in it, you end up needing your cape to cover yourself with some frequency, you can’t stand the sound of others so quietly and you start loving meeting yourself in your own world.
- Over time.
- You begin to relate to fearless loneliness.
- To enjoy your interior.
- To contemplate yourself and to find a balance that in youth is very difficult to achieve.
- At 20.
- Society doesn’t allow loneliness to look like a positive thing like it does at 30.
- When experiences force you to stop and book a package for you.
“Loneliness is our most private property, an ancient ritual of pyrotechnic games in which we move and invent walls with mirrors from which we always flee. ” – Mario Benedetti-
Loneliness is so attractive because it helps us preserve part of our own soul, through it we can listen to each other, face our concerns, observe our demons and manifest our desires.
Our moments alone become a meeting point that fills us up and doesn’t hurt us.
But be careful! The chosen loneliness should not be confused with social isolation, we must understand it as a place we turn to by choice and with the need to build our personality through complete observation.
When you choose to be alone, you don’t feel isolated, not just that, the loneliness chosen helps to develop a sense of control that the hectic and busy adult life does not allow us to cultivate.
People, in these moments of solitude, have a responsibility to build their image in the mirror and know what is going on behind their eyes, we can connect with our own capacity for introspection and analyze the context and consequences of our own conflicts, achievements. experiences.
Through an intimate encounter with ourselves, we say goodbye to emotional dependence and meaningless attachments, work our own essence when we need, cultivate and work our interior, making our needs aware and overcoming fears.
Thus, the fear of not finding the meaning of life is reduced, because when a person begins to appreciate his moments of solitude, he understands that the meaning of life is what people want to give him, no more or less.
People who like to spend time alone see things differently, know what it’s like to enjoy a day without a plan, find hours to be alone, be independent, consider a coffee in solitude as one of life’s greatest pleasures.
This helps us to strengthen ourselves in decision-making and analysis, in addition, the need to be alone and their appreciation are two facets linked to creativity and originality, which turn the small details into subtleties that make a difference.
We discover ourselves when we are in contact with our own deep SOI, this is what makes loneliness synonymous with personal and intimate space, it is what often drives us to seek and collect reasons to continue growing.
Loneliness always serves to compose, to enter into oneself and share reflection in every part of our life that is carefree, the key to this emotional state is that it teaches us, no matter how we do it, to reserve the land and fertilize. work in depth on what sustains us: self-love.