Impulsivity has always been a very strong feature of my personality. When asked about me, the answer was almost automatic: “I am very impulsive. “Is time up? I met new people, new places, but the most important place I ever met was in me. It’s also a slow and often painful process, but it was worth it.
When I find myself in situations where I act without thinking, I start asking myself the following questions: will it be worth it, is that what I want?Or is it my ego trying to speak for me?Will you help me in this quest to become a better person?
- When I can’t get answers.
- I turn to someone who can help me respond: a friend who’s been there.
- A more experienced person.
- To God through prayer and meditation.
- And only then do I make the decision I have to make.
- Big or small.
- It is not a shame to ask anyone for help.
- On the contrary: it is a test of strength and courage.
Since then I have started to receive many good things: smiles, gestures of love, seeing the people around me more confident and happier too, I no longer say what I would not like to hear, I do not impose my other ideas. I don’t rush to say yes or no, I’m in no hurry anymore. I keep doing the best I can, but I avoid creating expectations, I’m no longer ashamed or afraid to say or say something.
That doesn’t mean it’s better or worse than anyone else, that doesn’t exist. We are all children of a God who dwells in us, so we are all equal. What sets us apart is how we handle our daily battles and what we do with them. Have I learned love, respect, gratitude? I’m no longer ashamed of my tears or my smile, I deserve all this. And it’s not arrogance, as I thought in the past, it’s consciousness. All we go through is a lesson, if we put our hands in a warm place, we will probably burn and certainly choose not to put our hands on it, it is by fire and by life.
I’m not going to say that impulsivity has disappeared from my interior as if by magic, however, looking at me more closely makes me realize that it’s no longer my strongest feature, it’s not bad at all, but it’s the right time. for that and know it’s wonderful.
I thank everyone involved in this discovery and the many others that are happening and, if I can give you any advice, I would say: speak less and listen more, it is silent that you discover the power you have over your ego He cannot and should not dominate you. Say goodbye to your impulsivity, take more time for yourself and value your true friends. Soooo love yourself and you will see the world of harmony, light and happiness that will open before you. The door is here Turn the handle and come in.
It’ll really be worth it!