33 If one of the goals we have in life is to initiate and maintain a meaningful romantic relationship, in addition to working for that romantic relationship, we will also have to work every day to fall in love with ourselves.
Believing that we are people whose love is difficult not to be madly in love is the best way to achieve a lasting, healthy and exciting romantic relationship.
- Falling in love with oneself begins by knowing oneself.
- Enjoying everyday life.
- Enjoying what takes time.
- And falling in love with oneself involves having one’s own clear beliefs.
- Feeling able to live and respect one’s values and being aware of the importance of defending one’s integrity.
Falling in love with yourself is also being proud of who you are, admitting and respecting one’s faults and being authentic.
If you’re not attracted to yourself, why would anyone be?
Before we go any further, we will clarify: falling in love with yourself is a matter of self-esteem and has nothing to do with narcissism, to fall in love with you and show the best to your partner do this:
See what others see?
Do you love what you see?It’s not about looking more beautiful or better or better, that’s how you look. You need to dress to feel attractive, comb your hair, color your face or shave well, it’s about creating an image based on your personality.
A person who doesn’t take care of himself won’t take care of others and won’t appreciate the other’s efforts to take care of him (or at least that’s what he seems).
Offering a positive look will help you maintain your high self-esteem, be authentic and increase your self-respect, and self-respect is the first step for others to respect you as well.
How you talk and how you behave with others says a lot about you
How he greets others, how he talks to people, how he addresses them when he has to say or ask for something, how he reacts to different situations, even how he laughs, it’s all a cover letter.
Your manners also speak of the self-confidence you have in yourself, the respect you feel for yourself and others, whether it’s pleasant or not, even if it’s fun.
Remember that the attractiveness and sensuality of many people is in their way of being, much more than in the physical aspect, it is not only about how you are in intimacy, it is also about everyday life.
The above rules out the chances of success, if what you’re showing isn’t really who you are. You must be authentic, overcome the game of appearances and make your presence and the way you interact with others and the world show real parts of you. What you are and what you show must be fine-tuned.
If you want to find a partner in an environment other than yours, you will first need to absorb what you want to convert and then connect with that real person.
Your friends are part of your life, and if you have to abandon them for a relationship, it’s a sign that you don’t respect each other enough, you should know that life doesn’t start or end in your relationship or in your partner. , your friends will allow you to get other kinds of complementary experiences, which you can share with your partner. A person with friends is a trusted person.
A person who develops and fights for his own projects is a person of great value, who has ideas, interests, who works hard, who is committed, is a person with which you can make plans, with which you can grow and become a better person, a person who brings value to life and your environment. In addition, participating in group projects shows that you are a sociable, collaborative person who wants to live and have fun.