We are talking about sex that separates you from having sex. We feel the primary needs fleeing from complex emotions. We think of one as delicacy while the other is nothing more than the most animal expression of ourselves, but everything has middle points and neither white is white nor black is not black. Let’s see this.
When we talk about couple love, we mean the feelings that are generated in someone by joining each other (or not) another person, emotions that lead to mutual growth, complicity, joint projects, etc.
- If we mean sex.
- Without being accompanied by love.
- We talk about an expression?Selfish? From our genitals.
- The biological and primary act.
- By which humans can meet some of their primary needs.
For this is enough the union of two wills, there are no feelings, not even the knowledge of the other, is there a small tone of selfishness for each of these?Wills? It focuses on meeting your needs, because in the absence of attachment to the beginning, there is no reason to take care of the needs of the other person.
If we look for this middle ground, we find a reality that both those who believe they have only love and those who believe that they only have sex, at some point, modify it.
It’s very easy to have unemotional sex with a person, but it’s not so much when that person starts going through your life and feels more than once. Suddenly, where there’s been a cold kiss before, there’s a look, a pinch of lips and a caress. Sex takes on another meaning, passion begins to grow and change shape, because now sex is not just sex, it is sex with that person.
Romantic love, without sexuality, lacks that part that completes it, which makes these two human beings reach the maximum of intimacy, where trust crosses paths to which they could not even get close. Two spirits that have already come together in other areas can now physically unite and take this attraction to another point, to another plane, to another level.
All I want is the kind of sexuality where the senses are the third person in bed and make the link between two bodies, a collision of emotions. Someone else’s touch on your back is like a brush that draws your curves and kiss. it’s the ultimate end to your secrets.
The climax is more climax and it is only because you set aside the concept of unloading desire and working passion allied to tenderness, the complicity associated with shared pleasure. Understanding is the tool by which the gears fit together so that torque is a perfect machine in which the two are the best virtue of the other.
? In bed.
Lucia: Have you ever loved him more with another girl than with me?
Lorenzo: No.
Lucia: Tell me the truth.
Lorenzo: It may be like that alone, but it’s different
Lacia: You mean the one on the island, it’s not
Lorenzo: Yes.
Lucia: It’s almost anyone, it’s not known, full moon; you have to go to your island, separately and orient yourself quickly, as if we didn’t know each other, that would be the sex of the century, wouldn’t it?
(Silence)
Lucia: What do you prefer?
Lorenzo: How?
Lucia: You have to choose. Wild sex with a stranger or passionate sex with a wild and crazy knowledge of you and you, of course. Be direct.
Lorenzo: With you
? Lucie and Sex (2011)