Love is a splendid feeling, but unfortunately it can’t stand everything!We all love a film in which the protagonists swear eternal love and fight countless obstacles, so that they can continue with the love of their lives and be happy forever. in real life, love doesn’t happen that way.
Relationships are beautiful, if you start to be jealous of other people’s relationships or if you notice that your partner is setting boundaries that didn’t exist before (such as how to dress, who to meet, etc. ), you may have fallen into a Toxic relationship.
- Toxic relationships are more common than you think; because in soap operas.
- In movies and even in magazines it is said that when someone really loves.
- Everything starts to be tolerated.
- Accepted and everything is going well.
- But isn’t it?and I think it’s a big mistake.
Thinking that your life would be meaningless without the person you love is very dangerous, a relationship seen in this way can destroy your self-esteem because you allow the other to impose limits on your life. Make practical jokes that make the person sick. , emotionally cold or manipulated on the pretext that “it’s the best for you” also fall into this category.
If you’ve identified yourself with any of these examples, stay calm!The important thing is that you are now aware of it and that you can go back.
? The first step is to make it happen. It’s important to be aware that your partner doesn’t actually let you go and, instead of helping you, guides you as if you’re incapable.
? The second step is to value yourself. Recognize that you are a person full of virtues and characteristics that are very valuable, simply because you are yourself, you have dreams, and the person next to you should support you, in addition to being your partner, not just another obstacle to avoid.
? The third step is to be independent. You don’t need anyone, do you have everything you need and have the right to want what you want?You’ve got it all in you. Your dreams depend on yourself, your life and your desires as well. Repeat as many times as necessary, preferably in front of a mirror.
If it is not possible to make the other person understand that you are a person on your own and that the person does not need to set limits on you or force you to think differently; and concludes that he can’t help but make you feel bad about his devaluations, run!The most important thing is that you walk away completely (in these cases) and cut off all kinds of contact, so you have enough time to heal the wounds they’ve left to you. You may experience an abstinence crisis, but consider whether your anxiety or insecurity has subsided, as no one devalues you anymore.
Think and, little by little, will you lose? Also, always remember how much it made you feel your relationship with your ex. If what you remember isn’t just a good time, believe me, you’ve made the best decision.