Love cannot be defined, because defining it is limiting and love has no limits.
Perfection doesn’t exist, even in love. However, it is important to find the best love for us, the most satisfying, that makes us feel good.
- Let’s just say that.
- In these areas.
- We don’t have to settle for ourselves.
- But work to be honest with ourselves and our feelings.
Enjoying full and true love requires prior internal work that can be complicated. For that, we have to drop all the links that contain our previous ideas.
There’s not half the orange, no one can complement us, we’re nobody’s life and we don’t want to be. It’s complicated because, as we’ve mentioned on other occasions, it clashes with the hyper-romantic ideas we have’ absorbed from Disney stories and Hollywood movies.
What is unhealthy is not attachment, intense affection or inclination towards one person, but the need and dependence of the other to achieve it.
Thus, when we understand that we cannot give anyone the responsibility to complement ourselves, alleviate our needs, or resolve our conflicts, we will understand what we can really expect from true love.
An unhealthy love is one in which we have lost the north, our own identity and our relationships.
It is not the perfect love, even if we have been sold that this beautiful feeling must be so intense every time it forces us to change our universe.
True love is also not one who has no problems or does not argue, but one who is able to resolve his differences or live with those aspects that have no solution.
Love needs a place to swing, sleep and take refuge
A true love, which is not a film, is built every day without laws and without schedules. A faithful love is not the one who knows everything about you, but the one who does not need to know you and respects your intimacy.
You can understand your past and your present and you are not blind, it is the one who does not betray, the one who does not harm, the one who does not give up, this is what we do not say goodbye because we do not go, give security and not fears, that offers confidence and without doubt.
Sincerity is based on respect to rediscover every day the virtues and flaws of our companion, to appreciate the small details and immerse ourselves in the daily life of wanting to stay.
Confidence in knowing that there is a place where, even if the world collapses, we can be safe and protected.
Perfect love is impossible, but true love exists, it is known for what it offers and not for what it requires, the one that gives a smile to the soul, the one who does not submit, the love for whole oranges with their juice and without juicer.