Love will always have a limit: dignity. Because the respect that each of us has a very high price and we will never accept cuts to satisfy a love that is not enough, that hurts us and makes us vulnerable.
Pablo Neruda said that love is short and forgetfulness very long, but in the middle, is that always left?Firefly light? It lights up naturally on dark nights to indicate where the limit is, to remind us that a long carelessness is better than a great storm in which we end up selling our dignity.
- Believe it or not.
- Dignity is the fragile and delicate bond we so often make.
- Which can break and break the bonds of our romantic relationships.
- There are many occasions when we inadvertently cross this border until we get carried away by extremes where our moral limits weaken.
- We think that out of love everything is worthwhile and that any renunciation is small.
Because love and dignity are two currents in a convoluted ocean, in which even the most experienced sailor can lose track.
Many people say that ego feeds pride and the mind feeds dignity. In any case, these two psychological dimensions are two everyday inhabitants of the complex islands of romantic, sometimes confusing relationships.
Pride, for example, is a known enemy and often associated with self-love, but it goes further, because pride is an architect specialized in the construction of walls and fences in our relationships, in the decoration of every detail with pride and the search for victimism in every word. Despite all these destructive acts, what really hides is low self-esteem.
In the meantime, dignity is the exact opposite, does it act all the time listening to our voice?I? To strengthen the most beautiful human being, self-respect without forgetting respect for others. Here, the concept of self-love takes on all its meaning, because it feeds on it. to protect yourself without harming others: without causing “side effects”, but validating one’s self-esteem at all times.
Dignity is not sold, not lost or given. Because a defeat in time will always be more dignified than a victory if we make it out?of this battle, raised chin, all heart and sadness that will end up renewing hope.
A healthy and dignified love is not suitable for martyrs or renunciations, those in which we say that everything is right next to the beloved, there is no point in positioning ourselves in your shadow, where there will be no more sunny days for our hearts. or stimuli for our hopes.
Therefore, and in order not to fall into these convulsive emotional currents, we must think of the following problems, which can certainly help us:
Dignity is and will always be the recognition that we are worthy of better things, for it will always be better a dignified loneliness than a life of need, than incomplete relationships that make us believe that we are secondary actors in the theater of our existence. . Don’t let him, don’t lose your dignity for anyone.