Introverted people’s brains work differently. That’s why your romantic relationships tend to be more delicate: with much fewer words, but with a more sincere and profound “I love you”. They are personalities able to connect with their loved one in a much more intense, almost magical way.
It’s safe to say that introverted personality is much better understood today. Thanks to the diversity of research and published books, such as Susan Cain’s The Power of Introverts, we know such important aspects as the fact that introverts are not necessarily shy. They are selective, attentive, sensitive and even good leaders in work environments.
“Prejudice against introversion leads to a huge loss of talent, energy and happiness. -Susan Cain-
But when it comes to love, it is common for introverted people to face difficulties typical of this personality trait; in adolescence, they may even think they have nothing to do with the brilliance and dazzling brilliance of extroverts. the quiet corners of the last rows from which to observe the world in peace and discretion.
The introverted teenager tends to love in secret. He dares not take a step in a context that at first glance seems made for the daring, for lovers of tumult and groups of lifelong friends where everyone speaks and no one listens.
Gradually the introvert? and understand their qualities?
They say that simplicity is to set aside evidence to maintain the significant, an idea that is undoubtedly typical of introverts. They don’t like artificial things, talking, attracting attention, or investing time and energy in aspects that def from their true essence, their soul, their personality.
Perhaps that is why it is not so easy to undertake activities such as flirting, attending parties to socialize or dialogue with the person who attracts you if you are in a large group of people, we cannot forget that, as neurologists explain, introverts suffer more neurological fatigue when communicating and socializing. They therefore need long moments of solitude “to recharge. “
Carl Gustav Jung also approached with interest the issue of introversion, for him introverted people put all their attention at the center of subjective and psychological processes, so they tend to move away from the daily noise to inhale the oxygen necessary for loneliness.
But, given these characteristics, how to achieve a romantic relationship?
What is now known as the “Silent Revolution” is underway. This approach has several objectives. On the one hand, reversing the wrong concepts: introversion and extraversion are not airtight categories, they are two extremes of the same thing, where each usually has different degrees.
“We forget that someone is never more active than when they do nothing, they are never less alone than when they are with themselves. “Caton?
Introvert doesn’t hate socializing and doesn’t lack social skills. It’s just the opposite. This is someone who has gained his own freedom. In an overactive society that forces us to be attentive to the outside by the amount of information he puts at hand, the introvert has found refuge in himself to be more creative, sensitive, original, analytical and a good emotional manager.
Sometimes you don’t have to attend a party to find a romantic relationship, this personality profile knows in what contexts to move in and how to connect with others, it’s a seductive or a seductive of short distances, from face-to-face conversations. , moments of simple and magical complicity.
Another myth that we must set aside is the idea that introverts only form good couples with those who have the same personality, it is not true. Introverts and extroverts also form excellent relationships in which they enrich each other.
Now let’s look at the traits that usually define them
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Because if one thing introverted people appreciate is to share those moments of silence, it is to be free of pressure, to revel in this true simplicity, to connect one’s inner world with that of the loved one in a simple complicity.
Could there be anything better than that?