Love is loving. It’s simple. There is no love based on carelessness, in fact, there is nothing more characteristic of a lover’s thinking than taking care of his partner, doing this means paying attention to the small details, valuing the people we have with us and making them feel special. heard and loved.
This may seem very obvious to us, but the reality is that the first thing we usually give up is precisely this: take care of ourselves, we know the theory perfectly, we know that we must win every day and that we must keep our attention in our partner. or who we want well about.
- However.
- When it comes to implementing the theory of daily care.
- We tend to sin selflessness and end up damaging our relationship with attitudes of indifference or delay.
- That is.
- By putting off the small details.
Sometimes you love the same thing you do as a child with your ball. In other words, sometimes we don’t know why we have to cry soon because we’ve lost it. The phrase “we do not value what we have until we have lost it” is widely known.
If we do not strive to take care of our relationships, we run the risk of losing our dreams and the will to maintain the affection or bond that makes us happy. We believe that our partner or those around us have an obligation to wait for us, to support us. us, to understand us no matter what.
But the truth is that it is possible to tolerate everything, unless our needs are completely out, with this idea we have come to submit and submit, create or feed a very bad vicious circle that deteriorates the feelings that need to be taken care of. .
It is usually explained by the short time available, but the truth is that what often deteriorates our relationships is precisely inertia, habits, customs, routine, so what does not have to be negative, tends to be destructive if not treated properly.
How do we stop taking care of those we love? Don’t feed daily smiles, close your eyes or perceive reciprocity, this ends up lowering the light that love gives to our lives and everything becomes much shallower.
Then it erases what fueled the “special”, we stop feeling loved and part of our relationship begins to fail. Thus, the absence of our interest and gratitude ends up generating doubts in a couple and union becomes a disunity.
There is no recipe prepared to protect our love, but we know that we can do everything we can so that at least inertia does not harm the relationship, because there is no eternal love in itself, but there are loves that take care of themselves.
Thus, the fundamental pillars of a lasting relationship are admiration, the conception of the couple as a team, the deep knowledge of the other, the learning of difficulties, the joint search for solutions to problems and sharing problems and happiness.