Almost all of us behave as if love is not learned, as if love is what sleeps in every human being and that simply hopes to awaken when the circumstances of our lives are good.
Each person experiences love in a limited way, and does not seem to connect the loneliness and confusion that result with his lack of knowledge about love. We don’t seem to realize that we can’t live with what we’re not involved in. To dedicate yourself to love, you must always grow in love.
- Every day.
- The news talks about the political and economic crisis.
- New cases of gender-based violence.
- Bullying and abuse of adolescents.
- Social scandals.
- If.
- Despite this.
- You get up.
- Have breakfast.
- Dress and.
- With renewed determination.
- Take to the streets.
- The street protected by the armor of optimism.
- Looking with children’s eyes.
- Enjoying emotions and enjoying life and people.
- You can be grateful.
- Because you can love.
- Living life as a lover is the best option.
Choosing to be passionate does not remove common sense from our life nor does it mean that we should leave our brains at the door, love is an option in which you can see life in a perfect, exciting, full and wonderful way. It is also possible to learn to love and, for love, to see everything differently.
Love is an emotion, it’s the love or affection we feel for something or someone, but love can have many faces. And it can be a behavior modifier, an agent of action and change for those who feel and care for them.
According to Robert Sternberg’s psychology and the triangular theory of love, love has three fundamental components: intimacy, passion and commitment.
Is it possible to feel love for friends, family, couple?And, of no, life.
Erich Fromm, a psychoanalyst, social psychologist and philosopher, has addressed the theme of love in one of his works “The Art of Love,” and documents the relationship between doctrine and life, arguing that it is a continuous rebirth.
The tragedy, as he himself says, is that most of us die before we start living. Fromm’s work consists of philosophizing from the concrete, accepting the limits of abstract thinking and renounging any kind of mesianic attitude. Tradition, this work brings vivid and profound reflections, reveals the author’s particular talent for exposing questions that seemed confusing and surprises us with his always stimulating intuitions and explanations.
We are all born with the capacity to love and the need to be loved, but not all of us have the capacity to love, we must evoke it, study it, teach it and practice it, how do you learn to love?How does each learn what love is determined by the culture in which it is educated, by the family to which it belongs, by the closest ones, by the experiences lived?
So who teaches us to love?Our parents are our first teachers, even if they are not always the best. Children grow up believing that their parents are perfect, and then become disillusioned and irritated when they prove that they are human beings and that they make mistakes.
Most people never learn to love, even if the potential of unlimited love exists in all people, who want to be recognized, eager to develop, eager to grow. It’s never too late to learn something they’re potentially capable of.
The lover rejects the labels. There is not a word significant enough to begin describing even the simplest of men. There are many beautiful things in every human being to label with a nickname and corner them regardless.
Leo Buscaglia, professor of special education at the University of Southern California and author of several books, created a truly unique academic subject: a course on love at the University of Southern California, said that love is learned and must be exercised.
A course on love seems ideal, but more than that, it’s necessary. Buscaglia has always insisted that love is a true vital choice, whose alternative is frustration, loneliness and fear. In his books, he teaches to think, feel, and act to grow in love and deeply experience all that life has to offer. More than a style of love, it offers an art of living.
If we don’t stop to see how we feel, we may have to rething our ability to love. It’s never too late to learn other ways and feel better. To learn to love, we can start with: