“My mother used to say that love is never wasted, even if we don’t get it back as much as we deserve or desire.
Let love flow?” She said. Open your heart and don’t be afraid to hurt yourself. Do protected hearts end up hardening?
? Coffee of broken hearts? ? Penelope Stokes
Love is never lost or forgotten, it is preserved in our hearts, even if you do not think about it, love continues to play an important role in our lives and in our memory.
In this sense, it never ceases to be love and make sense, sometimes to love and not to be reciprocal can be very sad and frustrating, it is undeniable to give much and receive little tired, the trick is to expect nothing from anyone but you. what it will be.
“Cultivate your ability to give, without neglecting your ability to receive. “
This goes violently against the concept of love as total and absolute abandonment. This can be hard to understand, but we must reject the idea of love as in Disney movies. “I do everything for you and if you leave, everything will lose its meaning. “sense. “
However, there are relationships that are doomed to failure for total lack of reciprocity and gratitude, cultivating love every day is the only way to keep it alive.
We need to criticize ourselves and analyze if what we expect from our partner is the same as what we do for him, in this way we will destroy our relationship and hurt ourselves, each person is who he is and loves in a very particular way. road.
However, a collapse caused by emotional dependence is an opportunity to bring about change and eliminate our needs and dependencies. Broken hearts are composed and generate beautiful love stories of people who love without expecting anything in return.
“Love is not lost, it is transformed”
It’s not about love, it’s about self-love, that you know how to see and see yourself with respect and affection. If you want to be loved, love. Loving is the best way to receive love, not necessarily from others, but from oneself.
Accepting our own feelings is very important; makes us feel good, able to love and be loved.
“Do we harvest what we plant?
Opening our hearts and unleashing our feelings prevents us from being cold, hardened people. We know that stones do not feel or suffer; we are not stones, we are hearts that smell and think.
No one wants to live locked up; It would not be very smart of us to be our own jailers and hide the feelings that flow naturally.
“We can choose between being happy and optimistic people or sad and negative people. No one is responsible for your happiness; Is that your choice?
Self-esteem is the best way to have a lot of love to give to others, if you have a partner you will enjoy much more of your relationship.
It is complicated and, at first, it can generate conflict, because our idea of love is always emotional dependence, however, ending these preconceived ideas will help you revitalize or cultivate love, whether for you or others.
“To love you need an inner work that only loneliness makes possible. “