Love is pure adrenaline and avoids any attempt at rationalization: we cannot control it and we cannot decide when we want it to happen. It happens and provokes something extraordinary, so frightening and special while leaving no one indifferent. Therefore, love cannot be hidden or hidden.
The magical nature of love means that we cannot force it to happen whenever we want; in fact, when the French philosopher Sartre said that we are free, less than to decide to be, he forgot to add the feeling of being in love: one does not choose, this feeling arises and can occur both at a good time in our lives and at a bad time.
- Certainly.
- You have already experienced the terrible pain caused by a sentimental breakdown.
- And that is why you know better than anyone the consequences of this emotional loss: is it called?Bounce relationships? Those who started right after finishing another relationship left their wounds.
“What do you love when you love, my God: the terrible light of life or the light of death?What is sought, what is found, what is: love?What?
-Gonzalo Rojas, poem? What do you like when you love it? –
All the relationships that start after a breakup are not the product of this rebound effect, but in many cases what happens is that people think it alleviates suffering and tries to go in the wrong direction: inadvertently, a new person will solve the problem. unease and unite the traits of the eldest person he loved.
In fact, behind this behavior is loneliness and instability: we are so bad that we cannot overcome it, but we hide it because it is easier than confronting us, that is, the lost bond makes us think that we need another connection with Feel Complete: we are desperate to love to erase the past, forgetting that only those who are prepared for it really love it.
Sharing life with someone is not easy, but if there is true love, the pieces fit and the relationship progresses with happiness, so it is not easy to live with yourself if there is something that is miswhere and needs attention. Therefore, before trying to find balance as a couple, you have to learn to be alone, otherwise any union formed will be a mirage.
To overcome loneliness or, rather, realize that loneliness can be positive, the first thing to do is to face fear: many people do not like their partner, but they are afraid of having no one else. We will probably repeat the error several times in our relationships.
The fear of being single is an increasingly common problem in the Western world, which sometimes does not allow sufferers to go through the grieving process that requires a rupture, resulting in emotional dependence and misconceptions about loneliness and freedom: Aren’t you alone, bitter?not even being with someone means “lack of freedom. “
“There is no formula
love
it’s the millimeter limit
that separates the soul
of the most absolute material,
A very tangible fantasy?.
-Suso Sudon, poem? Metamour? –
As we said earlier, only those who prepare for it really love it, those who have already recognized that they do not want to fall into the same traps of the past, and those who dare to take the risk, because what a person feels is greater than their fear. The spell of correspondence with someone occurs when you least expect it and when you know you only have the opportunity to experiment. Right now, love unreservedly.
There are those who want to feel loved enough to let their hearts fill with illusions, there are those who do not love each other and intend to be loved, there are those who listen only to their mind to act and forget about emotion. emotional and cannot be measured or calculated. Anyone who might feel passionate, in the end, realizes that they did not have to strive to do so: because it was their time and life had slowed him down.
? That was your story
If you cross paths with mine
So many people, so many people there
And coincide that day?
-Music Match, Mono-