I want a love present, inscribed in small details and with no expiration date. I want a love that doesn’t take things for granted, that doesn’t make me cry, but quiet days full of love and afternoons of eternal hugs.
Without a doubt, we all want a relationship with these characteristics, but many times we forget something fundamental: relationships must be worked on a daily basis, because affection does not feed on emptiness or absence, it needs an authentic presence that allows us to grow. .
- Love is a thread that connects two hearts.
- Two lives that need daily light to see each other and an inner strength to support the ones: if there are no details.
- There is no essence.
- And if there is no gasoline.
- The thread is broken.
Often, when we spend some time in a relationship, a very everyday enemy called “routine” appears, and is characterized, in turn, by a dimension in which we begin to ignore things. Does that seem to be the case? I don’t need to say or do anything because he/she already knows, or I’m sure he doesn’t care, because I know he wants me together, why don’t feelings change?
In fact, these ideas are misleading, as love still cares about things. Love, sometimes, although mature, also has doubts and needs daily demonstrations of affection, words and gestures that build reciprocity. Authenticity.
Love, like life, changes and transforms. A relationship goes through different stages and will have different needs at all times, however, the affection is always the same and must be offered through a particular language.
There is a language inscribed in love that we can all understand, and it is that of enthusiasm, that of dreams that continue to illuminate our eyes, wanting caresses and seeking moments of closeness.
It is possible that today’s passion is not the same as that of the first days, but now a deeper phase begins, where tenderness and complicity give way to another phase, where the same love, the same need continues to exist. Pay attention to her every day.
They are behaviors that hurt and are not very constructive, that lead nowhere. A problem cannot be solved by raising another problem. The needs felt in the relationship must be expressed aloud so that they may be present, so that they become aware of them.
Love is in the small details
It is not always easy to find the love that adapts to our peculiarities, our defects and our details, the most important thing is to have a love that corresponds to our values and with which it is possible to walk hand in hand throughout our life cycle. , growing in pairs and, also, individually.
I want a love where we are not antagonistic, where there is not one that always wins and another that always cries I want to dance the starry nights and let the years come in peace, saying that everything lived, what happened was worth it.
A relationship that isn’t? And it is not served daily is a relationship that is not maintained and that ends up disintegrating irretrievably, so it is necessary to take into account these simple dimensions, love must be showered daily.
Sometimes we feel the need for our partner to show us their love “how we want and hope. “
There is one aspect to keep in mind: there may be everyday gestures where affection is always explicit, where there are a thousand and one details and hundreds of affections, but they must be authentic.
Love should not be forced, it should not be shown obligatory, with a constant of “do I love you?”, or with a weekly gift. It is better to have a complicity, a surprise, an unexpected gesture, a sincere embrace than a routine where words lose their essence.
Love is not just wanting, it is understanding, it is being present and giving happiness.
Image credits: Mila Marquis, Christian Schloe