Loving oneself is the only love that resists everything and exists forever. But after all, what is it to love yourself and how do you recognize that you’re really in love?It may seem easy, but it’s not.
Many say “I love myself,” but in reality their attitudes toward themselves and others are far from self-esteem. Before we love someone, we must make sure that we love each other so that this love of the other do not become addiction for lack of ourselves.
- We must observe how we deal with everything from simple personal care to the words we use to define ourselves.
- To the feelings we show ourselves.
- To the relationships we allow ourselves to have.
- Even if it is familiar.
This love is an awareness of oneself as a unique being, manifested in attitudes of respect, attention and care for what we say and do, reflected in evil or that such actions can cause us in the first place, and in the next, because what we do for others returns to us, whether we accept it on time or not.
When we begin to love each other, this is the moment when we accept ourselves as we are, physically and emotionally, with self-criticism in our faults, understanding the manifestations of our feelings, being patient with us, respecting our limits and time. change, but with the awareness that we are not perfect and that we can and must constantly improve on everything for a better life. , which will therefore be reflected in others.
It means having self-esteem in any situation, however complex, we confidently entrust ourselves to each other without passing the blame on our failures to others.
The selfish is someone who acts with the “EGO”, which is a misperception of the feelings and thoughts that we let manifest the same about only our interests. You don’t understand, do you like yourself?How to take care of yourself for the body, whether eating well, doing sport or taking care of your appearance in general, it’s not hard to find people with all that affection to pretend to love, but with low self-esteem, they are part of the love for you, but it’s not just in this aspect that ends the love for yourself.
To love oneself is a state of being, of not having, is to understand that our desires will not always be satisfied, but that is not why we will feel inferior to anything.
We understand in the face of situations that everything follows a time that is not ours, and for everything there is a reason; we do not punish ourselves with revolts, wounds, abandonments, we remain confident, even if we are sad about a situation, because we already understand that everything is happening, and being at peace with us is a gift.
To love oneself is to be careful that things or people do not take away our peace, even if they offend us. We install a filter on us because we understand that we are unique and responsible for our physical, moral and spiritual well-being.
To love oneself is not to judge oneself and others, it is always to be careful to say and do everything possible to be well, in peace; means enjoying your company and not relying on someone to feel good, happy, happy.
Being with friends is a pleasure, not an escape. Having a partner for the pleasure of the company, not for fear of being alone.
When we love each other, we are always attentive to change, especially internally, in order to achieve ever more total peace, which does not mean the absence of situations to be resolved, but because we love each other. , we find the serenity of facing everything without settling down, respecting our own limits and that of the time over which we have no control.
To love oneself is to look at life with confidence, courage and responsibility not only with us, but with the environment in which we live, when we truly love each other, we leave the illusion that everything and everyone should go well in our own way. and we learn to preserve ourselves.
It is certain that if we are well in ourselves, and act consciously with ourselves and with the world, everything will be in harmony with the love we emanate, and we willingly observe the signs to follow, enjoying being apprentices in life, and we are willing to change as many times as necessary, to achieve balance, wisdom and peace even in the face of challenges , and this is possible when we begin to observe each other in silence.