The adventure of our lives begins with unconditional love for ourselves, this is because we are the only person with which we will have to live desperately all our lives, love yourself and, above all, accept you as you are: even with your mistakes, your successes, your struggles and your shadows.
We know that loving ourselves is not a simple thing and that we have been raised with low demands on it, listening that we must achieve certain things to achieve social recognition, we struggle to be admired by others, to feel connected to them. .
- Over time.
- We realized that relying on the recognition of others makes us extremely unhappy.
- Generating dissatisfaction that we don’t know how to give up.
- Because our world revolves around how people are treated.
We assume that much effort is needed to understand that our personal worth goes far beyond the recognition of others, beyond the fact that we do things right or wrong, beyond achieving the desired results or not, beyond simply doing the right thing or not. Our value depends on ourselves, on showing ourselves as we are, and knowing that we are worthy of love, in spite of everything.
They’re all worthy of love. We often try to seek love outside ourselves, because they have taught us that we must earn love, all under the slogans of what we are told to do.
Our being is imbued with love, even if we are used to living outside ourselves, which can have serious consequences, the result is something that makes it increasingly difficult to listen to our basic needs, such as expressing our repressed emotions.
We care about and are distracted by trivial matters that do not enrich us or bring constructive things to our lives, we suffer from our expectations, our insatiable desires and our inability to make decisions, all because of the fears we have acquired and learned to have. .
? What is love? asked the disciple
The total absence of fear, says the master.
And what are we afraid of?
“Love, ” replied the master
-Anthony de Mello-
The first step in truly loving oneself with purity is to love oneself, to feel worthy to be loved, without judgment, to understand and respect us, to recognize what we feel, how we are and what we need at all times. Take care and take care of yourself.
On many occasions we are disconnected from our being, we are not aware and do not want to see what we lack, so all our energies are dedicated to caring for others, offering an understanding and attention that we are not willing to give. In this way we lose our self-esteem and fill ourselves with a great void.
Love yourself so you can love others. In addition, it is important to love yourself so that you can receive the love of others and trust in the love they can offer us. We cannot be receptive to everything others give us well if we do not learn to feel worthy of it, if we do not love ourselves.
“Only after I have found myself can I help others. And if I want to help, I must have a complete understanding and, above all, infinite love. “
-Krishnamurti-
You have learned that you must conquer love, that it has a number of conditions, and that you must make a great effort to be worthy and worthy of it. That’s why, and what you believe in everything people have offered you in your life, you can be lonely.
All because you haven’t seen yourself, you haven’t recognized the value of your essence, you haven’t seen the light radiating your smile and your gaze. You are a wonderful person who deserves all the best around you, worthy of infinite love, worthy of gratitude, smiles, joy, harmony and well-being, and above all, you are a person worthy and worthy of yourself, of all the love that carries within you.