In many moments, we like to emphasize the importance of loneliness, even if it is not perceived by our society with its authentic meaning, full of love for life, so we generally think that those who have loneliness as best friends are cold people.
Otherwise. Human beings are characterized by being vulnerable and being swept away by prejudice, without being able to see the essence of the truth full of beauty of those around us.
- We let ourselves be exaggerated by stereotypes.
- Without really considering the truth or at least reality.
- A reality that each has the power to perceive and create in his own way.
In this case, loneliness is taxed by many opinions that make us avoid at all costs, even seeking to distance ourselves from those who like to practice it, this happens when we do not really value the implicit message of loneliness.
The fact that you like to be alone and in our own company is a sign of maturity, emotional intelligence and great self-love. The mission of life that we must all have as human beings.
Let us be realistic, it takes a lot of strength to be prepared to face each other, which is the source of all our fears, we are the creators and recipients of our fears, and depending on how we treat them, we may have more or less power, whether or not we are like people of light.
When someone is able to live in solitude and listen to his heart, then he is a gift-laden person: that of his own emotional freedom, being emotionally free in our century is a treasure, and building an environment and relationships with these characteristics is even more valuable.
People with this gift respect and respect others, appreciate silence, and know what to say and when to keep their distance.
One of the stages of human life that characterizes us is to wish at some point a fully lived love relationship, if we already understand what has been said so far, we will surely agree that the best friends of solitude are the perfect companions.
Loneliness allows this space so appreciated by many and so sought after by others, to give themselves moments alone, away from our partners in space and time, but never alone in the heart, generates mutual respect, and these are the perfect ingredients to build a relationship. full of unconditional love.
We need to spend time with ourselves, understand the particularities of the moment to get to know each other better and, therefore, create the tools and freedom to meet our partner.
We can probably accompany our life partner to the same destination: the best version of ourselves, whether for love, motivation, connection?Loneliness allows us to understand that there are priorities and that we are not the center of the universe for anyone.
Does loneliness make it possible to understand that not everything is permanent, both positive and negative?And that’s why we move and change constantly, as Buddhist doctrine says, we are one with the universe, silence becomes our best ally to understand this pretext.
Thus you become a better person and allow the love you feel inside, both for yourself and for others, to never stop growing. Freedom flourishes, as does the desire to return and find itself, merging into one heart. And the greatest thing is to let go, this is the real basis of the pure and divine love of our humanity.
At this point, I will not say goodbye until I ask: do you now believe that love loneliness makes us better partners?As the great writer Arthur Schopenhauer said, “loneliness is the opportunity of all excellent minds. “