Imagine for a moment as you walk through the woods and choose a path that you think takes you home, all right, until one part of the road forks to the right and another to the left, difficult decision, right?We don’t know where each road will take us, the first of which may be a ‘sea of roses’, where there are no dangerous holes or animals, but on the other hand, we can expect all kinds of threats and setbacks. Or vice versa?
In addition, there is the possibility of camping, resting and deciding the next day, however, does it seem necessary to make a decision? And it doesn’t matter what it is, because sooner or later you’ll have to go home.
- Where do I want to go with this? This example I have just described is easily applicable to our lives.
- As most of the alternatives in the decisions we make involve a degree of uncertainty.
- However.
- It is a situation that will help us to strengthen ourselves emotionally.
Making decisions isn’t easy for anyone. There will be times when we make mistakes and others when we get there, however, no matter what we choose in the end, it will be a situation that will help us learn, reflect and discover what our mistakes are, so next time it will be easier to make the right decision and we will realize that we are the ones who have the reins of our lives , not the other way around.
As explained at the beginning, you can always decide to stand still and “do nothing,” but sooner or later you’ll have to act. However, all you can do with this is get carried away by your life, where everything is comfortable and where we always choose the decision that produces immediate pleasure without thinking about the possible consequences, so in any adverse situation it is always good to stop and think about all the good (or wrong) that this decision can BRING US.
Regardless of your age, deciding is always an awkward situation, because depending on what we choose, our life will be marked one way or another, yet take this as something new, as a way to change that boring life you lead. who knows, in the future, this decision can revolutionize you both emotionally and professionally. All this can be said in the famous phrase that Once Said Forrest Gump. “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know which one you’re going to get to.
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