Making love is one of the most beautiful and satisfying experiences you can have with another person, some people say that they are still having sex and others who say that they are still having sex, the truth is that there is not only one correct answer, and that each person is different and perceives situations differently.
Interestingly, do the Eskimos call it, making love, laughing together. In this way, any feeling of guilt or shame is eliminated and they use a term that denotes complicity and pleasure that implies intimacy with those we love.
- “Making love implies a connection to love that doesn’t happen all the time.
- Not even between two people who love each other.
- “.
? Jorge Bucay?
Today, with the use of new technologies, we usually communicate via mobile phones, so it is common to see couples or groups of people in bars, on the streets and in thousands of places, totally focused on their mobile phones and missing the opportunity. to create a pleasant moment with the people around them. This implies some dehumanization, because what seems to bring us closer, really separates us more and more.
Sharing our intimacy with someone is much more than sex, it’s complicity, affection, help, understanding, respect, honesty, it’s a set of values that seem lost, because we may be afraid to show ourselves what we are in front of someone. More.
Intimacy with another person is not created by being naked in front of them, it is created by sharing time, taking advantage of conversations, to be able to gradually know the other person and make themselves known, to discover common or different affinities. we are a universe composed of many elements that make us unique and that require time and rapprochement to be discovered and appreciated.
“The soul that can speak with the eyes can also kiss with the eyes. “
? Gustavo Adolph Bequer?
Sharing our time with someone we value is something unique, because these are moments that will never be repeated, it is also sharing meaningful glances, caresses or kisses.
There are times when, with a person we know well, a look is enough to understand what we think and vice versa: if he looks at us, we will know exactly what he means, without the words being necessary.
Having fun with someone and sharing wonderful moments is something that creates great intimacy and complicity with another person, sometimes to protect ourselves we maintain seriousness, but the sense of humor, knowing how to mock oneself, is a quality that creates empathy and promotes closeness.
To make love is not only to be in bed with another person and to have sex, to make love is to caress, it is to look at that person, it is to enjoy the intimacy that we create together.
In addition, the affection for someone manifests itself by helping and supporting the person who really cares when they need it, hugging them when they are sad, showing them our support with a simple caress.
Sexuality involves much more than the sexual act itself, because it is not a question of sharing a moment in bed with someone, having sex and disappearing, sexuality can manifest itself in a thousand ways: a simple walk of the hand, a look at a candle table, a casual brush, a timeless message, an encounter in an unexpected place.
It seems that we are afraid to be ourselves, we are not afraid that they will see us naked, but we hide our soul as deeply as possible so that no one sees it.
We must show who we are and how we are, reveal our faults and virtues, but only by being ourselves can we enjoy a complete relationship with another person, no longer being the character we assume we must be and allowing ourselves to be who we are.
“To make love is to undo the light, to remake history, to abandon the cross, to bite the desire, to take off the disguise, to rub your fingers leaving your soul alone. “
? Miguel Mateos?