Many people aren’t convinced there’s a good reason to get married, but if this is important to you, wait until you’re 30 or older. Here are the top five reasons to make this decision.
Our lives are constantly changing, but at 20, we are more immature, the issues that concern us are more superficial and also affects our choice of partner and our level of commitment, after 30 years we already know what we want and the level of commitment and type of partner we want are clearer.
- Money doesn’t buy happiness.
- But it makes life easier for us.
- At this stage.
- We do not yet have a strong career or a defined financial structure.
- Some have the opportunity to grow rapidly at work and achieve financial stability.
- But many others fail to do so.
- Achieve this level of comfort.
- When you’re in love.
- It seems insignificant.
- But in the long run this instability can greatly affect the relationship.
At 20 years old we want to have fun and explore possibilities in all areas of our lives. At this stage, we have more freedom to travel, meet people, fall in love and be disappointed; that is, we enjoy life without many commitments, although you can do the same at 30 or 40, it will not be the same, if you are already married you will have to give up many of the things that are part of this stage of life.
That’s a question I always ask myself. I have seen people who were married because they sought economic stability before the age of 30, but unfortunately the opposite can happen and marriage is short-lived, self-knowledge and lived experiences have a great influence on our decisions. Getting married for not being, alone or for greater financial security is the perfect recipe for failure.
We all have dreams and goals and most can get complicated with age. Some goals take decades and some can be achieved quickly if we commit. Marriage forces us to postpone these dreams because we will have other immediate concerns.
You don’t have to avoid dating or relationships, but getting married at 20 can cause a lot of problems and cause a lot of stress. Of course, not all marriages before the age of 30 are doomed to failure, but statistics show that many factors contribute to their short duration.