We all like to feel safe in our lives, we like to have stability and feel that we have everything under control, but sometimes we overestimate this situation for fear of change and lose many opportunities, experiences and experiences, we are definitely in our comfort area.
They are experiences that, if we dare to experiment, would certainly help us feel safer and happier with ourselves.
- Every time we overcome new challenges.
- However small.
- Our self-esteem increases.
- We learn.
- Grow and mature as people.
Is it like being in a pool that everyone likes and doesn’t have the courage to jump because the water is too cold?Until someone pushes us and says, “I’m fine, why didn’t I come earlier?”comfort zone.
If you don’t want to do something, why do it, but if you feel like it, why not?That’s the difference between being in the comfort zone and not being there.
When you want to do something but you don’t do it out of fear and you deprive yourself of what you’d like so you can stay calm where you were, you’re in your comfort zone.
“The spirit that opens up to a new idea will never return to its original size. Albert Einstein?
You’d like to take a trip alone or you’d like to talk to someone you’re so attracted to but the fear and safety you have in your life paralyzes you, so you’re definitely in your comfort zone.
When you try, when you try to do something new that you love and that attracts you, sweat your hands, feel a pain in your stomach, feel a little dizzy?
The body also warns us of changes, even sometimes it is so selfish that it helps us to paralyze, although you can always change your vision and have your body as an informant.
When you don’t act, you feel bad about yourself, you feel guilty about not being able to accept the challenge.
Guilt is associated with the past and sometimes victimization. It can also be an indicator that we are in our comfort zone.
As small as they are, define small challenges
Do you want to travel but are afraid because you have a mild illness, difficulties or have you never flown?Take one little trip, the next one a little bigger, the next one a little further?You’ll see how little by little you’ll overcome this obstacle.
We all have to take certain precautions and there is no doubt about that, but it is also true that life must be lived, not thought of.
You dare listen to one, don’t you? From the person who appeals to you so much, try to win the job you were offered even if you think you won’t succeed.
So, when this is all over and you keep thinking you failed all this, don’t you, I don’t think so. It wasn’t failures, it was triumphs.
You came out stronger, now you’re better able to face new challenges, now you can face rejection, because it’s part of everyone’s life, accepting her as a friend is more than a challenge.
We are often trapped in our old thoughts. Reading opens new horizons for us, especially if we seek emotional intelligence.
You’ll start to see things differently. Maybe you’re starting not to give so much importance to things that don’t really deserve your attention, maybe you’re more grateful for what you have, etc.
There are many people who have an innate emotional intelligence. Just by being with them for a while, we ended up saying “I’m like new. “Do not lose contact with them and listen carefully to their experiences.
Mark your time. Take your time, everyone has a rhythm of life, the important thing is to get ahead in everything you want and want.
And remember, stability can give you peace of mind, but there will come a time when it will limit you and prevent you from moving on. Take risks and dare to make your dreams come true. Get out of your comfort zone!