I have already lost in comparisons, absurd shame, wanting to be who I am not, all because I admired others while criticizing me, I might be afraid to be unique, to stand out, I wanted to be like everyone else. if not, stress-free, aim at everything others did, to everything others were.
Don’t compete with anyone, you don’t have to prove anything to anyone. You don’t need to get to where the other one went, just exceed your own limits. Be the best version of yourself!
- Since we were children they teach us to be better than others.
- To constantly compare ourselves.
- To envy ourselves.
- If we are too shy.
- We want to become that friend who has so much courage.
- We want to be like the others because we admire the great personality they show.
All this makes us flee from ourselves, we end up not knowing each other and we are not aware of our unique and special character, because we are not the same and we all have something special. If not, you’ll now find out how to look like yourself, how to highlight what makes it special.
Comparing ourselves with others is the worst thing we can do, this prevents you from focusing on yourself, focusing all your attention on the person or people with whom you are comparing yourself, so that they begin to be the model you want to follow, what you want but Do you know that the only model should be yourself?
Certainly, when you compare to these people, you don’t feel well, because you’re far from them. Maybe you’re dazzled by their safety, how happy they are, how quickly they can make friends?Since you won’t be what they are, you feel bad and your self-esteem decreases.
It’s normal to be dazzled by some people’s strong personality, they’re wasting security, they’re unique and it seems, stop looking at them and start looking at yourself. Do you feel good as you are, what would you like to change?
I want to look like people very different from me and I don’t realize I should look like myself.
Suppose you’re very embarrassed to speak in public and you’d like to be like that friend who doesn’t seem afraid to face a large audience, to talk, to receive criticism, first of all, no doubt, that you’re analyzing yourself, what are you scared of?Is that a real fear? Once these questions have been answered, it’s time to act. If you don’t like this aspect of yourself, it’s time to address the problem.
As you can see everything is focused on you, never someone else, because you can compare yourself to that person who does math very well, but if you’re more than lyrics, there’s no point comparing yourself. skills because we’re not the same! We are unique and different.
Stop thinking about others for a while, focus on others, comparisons make you feel bad, so it’s time for you to discover the good things in you, even if you think there’s nothing good, it’s all about research. enjoy what you’ve done. Certainly, there are many good things you can tell about that make you unique.
Suppose you’re the same person who’s ashamed to speak in public. Instead of focusing on all those people besides you, look what you’re doing right. People you admire may not know how to draw, but you’ve been praised more than once for making fantastic drawings.
There’s always something that stands out and, if you haven’t figured it out yet, it’s time to do it. Try new activities that are relevant to you. You can’t pretend you’re doing what’s not in your nature, that is, you can’t pretend to be what you’re not, let’s say you’re not a very logical person, in fact you’re more of a dreamer. Change that!
It is much more important for you to know yourself than to reveal yourself to others.
The key is to accept ourselves, get to know each other and identify the things in which we can be ourselves to the fullest, not all of us can get along with the same things or excel at the same things, that’s where our authenticity lies.
Will you still want to look like others or yourself?The only person you have to compare yourself to is you, the only person you have to compete against, because you’re what matters, who needs to excel every day, who seeks to be better than yesterday.
I want to look a way, you?