An afternoon with old friends, a trip to a dream place and endless nights of partying?After all this a question arises: Do I really share moments with people who have to do with me?If we hadn’t met before, would my relationship with this childhood friend have been born or should I meet other people so as not to limit myself?
Many of us ask ourselves these kinds of questions when we don’t feel like sharing moments with certain friends or with our partner, the opportunity to meet people is an alternative that we should not forget throughout our lives.
- We believe that because we have shared union and affinity with some people.
- We no longer need to meet others.
- But there comes a time when you start ignoring the people you thought you knew.
- Who have nothing to do with you.
- Your values.
- Your interests and the way they live their lives.
Maybe it’s time to look to the future and try your luck, because meeting different people can enrich you and broaden your views. We don’t always have to limit ourselves to our circle of friendship; open borders is an option we can try.
There are people with whom we travel all the way, fundamental elements of our lives, without whom we would not understand much of our past, the influence of their actions, their words and even their actions was decisive for us.
But for some reason, some people in our circle may disappear, walk away, or simply decrease the intensity of their connection to us; It’s the law of life, changes in course are fundamental in our trajectories.
“Don’t look for a friend to kill the hours, but one to live the hours.
? Khalil Gibran?
Thus, our circles of people vary over time, as do our tastes and attitudes, so the adventure of encounter is something that never stops. As we change, the people on our way also change.
If you share tastes with a certain number of people you can live unforgettable moments, but if there are no values that unsothe you, time together will be tedious and useless, so you should not limit yourself.
We believe that when we reach a certain age we can no longer meet new or different people, we think that everything is already organized and programmed by our environment, however, there is no better age to meet people than at that time:
Don’t lock yourself in a relationship that doesn’t benefit you at all and don’t do something because they say they do, because they know your secrets or because you’re afraid that when you leave, people will receive it in anger or as a betrayal. Meeting people who share the same values as yours will help you grow both internally and externally.
Life is so short that the only consolation is to share unforgettable moments with unforgettable people; and then one can remind the other of what happened in the past.
New ways of communicating virtually require a valuable tool to build relationships, but you don’t realize that after several days, when you turn off the computer, you lose half the day, we feel safe, we even interact with sleep and poor dresses, and this gives us peace of mind.
But we are becoming increasingly aware that we have lost direct contacts and days that are not repeated. When I read old novels, I am amazed at the unbridled ability to be in full communication all day, even with people who were not to your liking.
There is no need to use novels; before the digital age we went out and every day we knew someone new, it’s important to stop and think about the number of days we went by without knowing someone new, without getting involved in activities, without meeting.
This fact has also contributed to our desenchantment with relations; As much as we think that virtual relationships are other ways of relating, life is compressed on a screen and when it hangs it is over, expanding our circle with direct contact is also beneficial, we cannot simply have the alternative of meeting people. through a screen.
Thinking about what happened, I went through strange moments, I was afraid and confused, but I felt alive and I want to relive it, I want to get out of this long lethargy of emotional stability to enter another stage, where I feel challenged.
It is not out of recklessness or irresponsibility, but for reaching the end of my life telling and remembering stories; no feeling lived through a screen or long periods when nothing happened: neither bad nor good, because we were always the same.
I want to give myself the opportunity to know my current self, wounded and not so innocent, but sane and freer, just as sensitive, but smarter. I want to meet people to share my values and tastes, my opinions, my joys and My sorrows Meeting people helps us grow and get to know the world from different angles, and that’s what I want.
There are many broken people in the world who hope that a meeting and a hug will heal their broken parts, there are many happy people who expect more smiles or sad people who would like to be accompanied to help each other, there are many different people who hope to meet different people with which to identify.