“I look at the sky and try to see it among so many stars, I look in the shadows for his lost image.
I draw your face in the clouds I see passing, traveling aimlessly and guiding me through the moonlight, I ask you:
Where are you?
And then my heart floats, giving me the answer with a tear that makes me realize again: Aren’t you there, but you remain in my heart?
I like to think that there is a parallel world in which the souls who have left this world live, I like to think that the new ones have something they are no longer in, I cling to the idea that there is something or someone close to me that touches me every day with their fragments.
It is only a way to revive those who were, those of us who see in heaven, those who illuminate our lives every night, we must feel their presence abroad, even if we know that they will never return.
The truth is that every person who has already left our lives is now a star in the sky, a star that never goes out. For the memories of those who left remain in us; the country’s disease will always remain.
When a person leaves us, our life is paralyzed, our hearts are saddened, and we are stagnant; however, there is one way to continue writing our story: with tears, desire and hope.
“When someone dies, they don’t go alone, is it part of your soul to make your wings and fly with you?
His departure teaches us that it is not death that frightens us the most; What’s really painful is living in the pain of knowing that even if we cry and suffer, we’ll never see the person again.
It’s scary, very scary. It’s a pain that’s deep inside, that we don’t want to touch, because, after all, that’s how we feel about the person close to us and stay that way for a long time.
We make the mistake of thinking that eventually this pain will cease and that it can make us feel guilty, losing a loved one is always painful.
There’s a long way to go. You have to hit rock bottom, cry, fail and deeply regret that something is broken, that someone is gone, and that it is an undesirable “before and after” in your life.
“However, even if we never stop feeling lonely and sad about the death of a loved one, can we regain our lives and the desire to live and be happy?
Despite all the pain and sadness, our daily lives continue and we will learn to accept their departure by understanding the meaning of death and life.
It is not easy to recover and admit that part of your life has been unfinished, the months go by and we continue to remember, feel and think about everything that is outstanding.
“When life separates you from a loved one, is the memory of your smile the best way forward?
Every day of our lives we would give anything to feel them again, have them with us for a few minutes and say everything that now suffocates us, but we can overcome, we can find a way to live with suffering and desire.
The best way to do this is to reinvent hugs, make memories of them and deal with them every day, so our best tribute will be to bring joy back to our present, making these memories part of our happiness.
Source:? Death: a sunrise ?. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross