Every girl takes her mother with her. It is an eternal bond from which we can never disconnect, because if anything must be clear is that we will always have something of our mother.
To be healthy and happy, each of us needs to know how our mother influenced our history and how it continues to influence her, it was she who, before she was born, gave us our first experience of affection and support, and it is through her. that we understand what it’s like to be a woman and how we can care for or neglect our bodies.
- Our cells divide and grow at the heart rate; our skin.
- Hair.
- Heart.
- Lungs and bones were nourished by blood.
- A blood full of neurochemicals formed in response to your thoughts.
- Beliefs and emotions.
- When we were frightened.
- Anxious.
- Nervous or very upset by pregnancy.
- Our bodies were informed; when she felt safe.
- Happy and satisfied.
- We also noticed her.
? Christiane Northrup?
“Is the greatest legacy of a mother to a daughter to have healed as a woman?
? Christiane Northrup?
Every woman, whether a mother or not, carries with her the consequences of the relationship she had with her mother, whether she has conveyed positive messages about her female body and how we should work and care for her, her teachings will always be part of a guide to physical and emotional health.
However, the mother’s influence can also be problematic when the role played is toxic, due to an attitude of carelessness, jealousy, blackmail or control.
When we are able to understand the effects that creation has had on us, we begin to understand each other, to heal ourselves, and to be able to assimilate what we think of our bodies or explore what we consider possible in life.
When you record a TV camera to someone in the audience at a sporting event or other event, what do people usually shout?Hi, Mom!?
Almost all of us need to be seen by our mothers, we seek their approval. Initially, this dependence is based on biological issues, because we need them to exist for many years; however, the need for affection and approval is being forged from the first minute, as we look at our mother to see if we are doing something good or if we are worthy of a caress.
As Northrup points out, the mother-daughter bond is strategically designed to be one of the most positive, understanding and intimate relationships we will have in life, but doesn’t that always happen?
Over the years, this need for approval can become pathological, generating emotional obligations that allow our mother to have power over our well-being for most of our lives.
The fact that our mother recognizes and accepts us is a thirst that we must quench, even if we have to suffer to achieve it, this implies a loss of independence and freedom that erases and transforms us.
We cannot escape this bond, whether healthy or not, will always be there to observe our future.
The decision to grow is to clean up emotional wounds or any problem that has not been solved in the first half of our lives, this transition is not an easy task, because we must first detect which parts of the maternal relationship require solution and healing. .
Our sense of present and future value depends on it, because there is always a part of us who thinks that we must give too much to our family or partner to be worthy of love.
Motherhood and even love for women remain cultural synonymous in the collective spirit, this implies that our needs are always relegated to the satisfaction or not of others, so we are not dedicated to cultivating our spirit of women, but to configuring it to the taste of the society in which we live.
The world’s expectations of us can be very cruel, in fact, I would say that they are a real poison that forces us to forget our individuality.
These are the reasons that make it so necessary to break the chain of pain and the total healing of our bonds, or the memories we have of them, we must be aware that these bonds became spiritual a long time ago, so it is up to us to make peace with them.
Source: Mothers and Daughters of Christiane Northrup