My conception of the couple is not based on the satisfaction of social expectations, I know that many people are anxious not to be able to achieve the goal of getting married before a certain age, but it is a problem that will not lower my expectations. of what I want.
Often times, having a partner can be considered a triumph over a? Advice? Which was previously prefabricated by the company, with? Houses? you have to cross to be considered a “normal” person. The pressure is sometimes so strong that some prefer to reach the goal without even playing dice. They want their marital status to save them from criticism, they want to reach the final price without even trying to play.
- All options are respectable.
- Sometimes not having a partner means not knowing what to do on Saturday afternoons.
- We are too tired on Friday night to think about it.
- Sometimes it is almost worse than the hangover of a party that lasts all Sunday.
It is quite understandable that there are people who are content with having a partner without feeling passion, respect or even affection, however I prefer and I love those who have a partner not to achieve something, but to add up.
It is highly unlikely that a person will fall in love several times in their life. You don’t need to study chemistry, statistics or psychology to find out, you just have to realize that a high percentage of the people around us don’t. As they offer us a lot, we end up increasingly choosing our friends, and our privacy is an increasingly precious treasure.
This greatly reduces the chances that one person will be attracted to another, being well accompanied is much more than saying that you are with someone, at certain times in life we not only like to be accompanied, but our partner disappears.
There are no universal rules or formulas for finding a partner we feel comfortable with, social psychology and personality studies tend to generalize by saying that married people are less likely to suffer from depression than single women, but forget to mention that this only happens if the couple is happy. If you’re in a relationship without feeling well, your level of discomfort will be much higher than if you’re single.
On the other hand, it should be remembered that men (not all and less, fortunately) tend to increase their happiness in marriage in the face of celibacy because, until then, household chores were done by their mothers, and now mothers will. his wife. . Many women have internalized in themselves (not all, let alone, fortunately) that even if they work, domestic work is one more skill.
What makes some people find what they’re really looking for is perhaps the combination of two ingredients: a little luck and good self-esteem. One is usually related to the other. Keeping self-esteem intact after several failures and staying afloat when luck wasn’t really on your side is sometimes very complicated. It is also important to share common values for the relationship to last.
You’re starting to attribute deficiencies or flaws that others may have projected on you, finding the business you want depends only on the resilience of your self-esteem and not on lowering your expectations, if that’s really what you’re looking for.
Lately, romantic love has been devalued and repudiated, some sections of society argue that people are emotionally independent and that all they really seek is sex, considering it to be a real necessity; from this point of view, the rest is usually just “luxury. “However, personally, I am beginning to see this kind of vision with a lot of distance and skepticism.
Have many of us ceased to exist? Not getting married or not having children doesn’t mean you’ve failed, it’s a learning experience, and most of all, an experience, we were with someone at one point because we only added up, although we didn’t know exactly how to identify the monomas of that amount.
Love is the art of implicit well-being, which accelerates your steps and turns on your senses without really knowing why.
Our mood is softer, we feel a deep calm and, at the same time, an inspiring passion, there are people who do not know how to distinguish between toxic love and romantic love, who are unable to love or who simply generalize their bitterness and project it into others, but this does not turn all experiences into one.
If it’s not real, we also live in dreams, we also live to dream of romances. Don’t let anything take anything away from you, not even the blows of life, the desire to dream of what you’ve always wanted. For me, was it never good to score in?Home?Marital status just to comply?some people do.
It has always been ideal for me to have someone by my side to add up, so that committing to another person is a real exercise in freedom, giving wings to follow, horizons to reach and strength to reach. This adds up.