Kindness is one of the qualities that makes us more human, because it unites us with respect and love, many say that good people are so innocent that others benefit, in fact it is our pride that always keeps us defensive.
“Our personality always brings us problems, but it is our pride that keeps us in them. “- Esopo-
- Many times our pride is an obstacle that prevents us from showing how we really are.
- Our interaction and communication becomes cold and distant.
- The ego manifests itself to try to protect us from what we think is dangerous.
- We remain vigilant without the possibility of relaxing.
We keep our goodness hidden when we decide to opt for pride, being overwhelmed by pride can become a problem that makes us suspicious of others, feeling that we must protect ourselves from everything around us.
Our essence is made of kindness and innocence, of security and trust, which allow us to express this attitude, this human quality is manifested from childhood in acts of kindness, respect and gratitude, love is one of the fruits of goodness, which is why it is so important to cultivate it.
People often confuse kindness with submission, innocence and lack of personality, even saying they are weak and helpless people, no further from reality. Nice people are so strong they don’t have to protect themselves all the time.
A kind person chooses the path of rejection of pride that limits our good deeds and our welcoming approach by interacting with others, decides to be at peace to know each other better and always be in harmony with others and with himself.
“The only symbol of superiority I know is goodness. “Ludwig van Beethoven.
Pride is an attitude that prevents us from growing and developing our full potential. We do not take our mistakes and therefore do not learn from them. We hold others accountable for what happens to us and feed our egos of irresponsibility.
“The infinitely small ones have infinitely great pride. ” -Voltaire-
When we feel small, we have to compensate for that feeling with pride, pretending to be better than others. This attitude is ridiculous and has damaged our personal relationships; nobody likes to feel inferior and conflicts arise.
Pride disguises our weaknesses, emotions and feelings. We show an efficiency that we don’t have, when we actually want the recognition of others. True strength comes from within us, from what we really desire, without worrying about external acceptance.
The expression of pride is proof that something is not working well, perhaps it is ingrained beliefs that we do not want to face, perhaps we feel weak, inferior and incompetent, the anguish of everything that we cannot admit about ourselves makes us proud , superb and superficial.
A solidarity attitude allows us to act with kindness and throw away that useless mask of believing that we are superior to others. When we value kindness, gratitude, and respect, we can end this feeling of inferiority.
Cultivating an attitude of kindness, spontaneity, gratitude, warmth of trust and cooperation to be happy are simple keys, and when we apply them in our daily lives, we receive a more humane treatment, have healthier relationships and renounce necessity. rewards or rewards to feel good.
“The right people, if you think about it, are always happy people. “Ernest Hemingway.