My gesture is neither luck nor whim of fate, if I get to where I am and have what I have is for those values that do not need public: perseverance, effort and sacrifice, because the real success is to be happy with the people you love and be proud of you for all that you have achieved.
We live in a society where sometimes personal triumph is seen with fear and mistrust, if someone has managed to get where they wanted it is because other people have moved their children to do so, there is no doubt that this happens. Sometimes. However, authentic talent exists and is nothing more than a discipline imbued with tenacity, coherence, and patience.
“Except for fools, men do not differ much in intellect; Just for serious, hard work?-Charles Darwin-
When we talk about success we not only talk about professional triumph, we also talk about those people who achieve the ideal well-being with the dream partner, with their family, their friends and the attitude of knowing how to face any difficulty, with courage and optimism. Luck here hasn’t touched your children either.
Because authentic happiness and triumph in life are the result of a wise perseverance that knows what your struggle is, that gives everything for what it loves, what it dreams of and aspires to achieve, in fact, and we are sure, thousands every day people take their sacrifices and personal efforts in silence without the need for an audience.
He’s a real talent, what doesn’t he see, the resignations or the bad luck of fate?
Confucius said that everyone who moves mountains begins by moving pebbles, success in any realm of life comes, in fact, by insistence, by the perseverance we carry in our being as one more need, as one who breathes, as one who walks every day. with his old slippers, dreaming of going miles further.
Anders Erikson, a well-known psychologist at the University of Florida, explains that people who succeed or succeed have no cell that differentiates them from others. It is clear that we do not “serve everything” but there are those who know how to add a series of basic dimensions that allow, without a doubt, to achieve what they propose.
One thing we also have to keep in mind is that there are a lot of talented people, in fact, we’re all good in some areas. However, despite intelligence, what sometimes fails is constancy and faith, we are sometimes greatly affected by criticism, the constraints that society itself imposes on us, and even our own limiting attitudes.
It’s not enough to say ‘I’m going to make it’. Verbalizations are useless if there is no full and authentic conviction, coupled with a firm attitude of “not giving up. “
Paul Bloom, a professor of psychology at Yale University, notes that empathy is overrated. Everyone claims to feel it, but in reality very few can really connect with the personal and emotional realities of others. In fact, there is one aspect that is curious. It is easier to sympathize with the pain of others than with the happiness of the next.
It’s like the “I wish you were happy, but no more than me” effect. It’s something we see a lot. We said at first that if someone succeeds, for example, professionally, there is always classic mistrust, if our unfortunate friend starts a relationship with a spectacular girl, it is not normal, there must be a hidden interest on his part.
Why does the human mind sometimes move into these malevolent corners and nooks and crannies?
Those who envy only see their limited universe. You will never feel the perseverance of those who spend their nights studying, of those who sacrifice their moments of rest to invest everything in their work, nor will you see the sincere love that this spectacular girl feels for this boy.
And above all, you have to know how to choose people well. Look for those who are not only able to understand your sorrows, surround yourself with people who share your happiness when you win triumphs.