There is no “perfect couple”. What exists are two people who complement each other as best they can and build a good life together. As far as sex is concerned, there is still much to learn and know. Let’s stop feeling guilty if “we don’t have sex three times a week, “if” we always use the same positions in bed. “or if” is needed as much as possible to prevent the fire from going out between the sheets. “Without a doubt, life in this way is very complicated and difficult to lead.
Everything about love, marriage, relationship and sexuality is full of misunderstandings about what “should be. “At that point your intimate relationship is healthy, real and lasting in the short, medium and long term is not something that can be analyzed in a magazine. trends and fashion, for example, such as not in a movie or soap opera.
- Does this force us to be ‘madly in love’? or ‘having sex every day’.
- And in real life.
- It’s not exactly like that.
- We must also abandon feelings such as doubt.
- Jealousy and anxiety.
- As we have our “ideal” partner.
So it’s easy to believe what princess stories say. The novel is presented as if it were the most wonderful thing in the world, but it says that if you don’t do things, something goes wrong with you or the other person, and you need to talk, fix your flaws, etc.
Many truths about couples are not mentioned in magazines or television, mainly because they “don’t sell. “There are many myths that revolve around this issue and need to be reversed. For what? Because in this way we can live more fully and enjoy everyday life, we all experience frustration, fear, hatred, anxiety and stress, that doesn’t mean we’re going wrong.
You have to put aside the fantasy and adapt exclusively to reality. Focus on what really matters, watch the mistakes that hurt, and don’t focus on what?Do. As for sex, these are the 4 truths that not everyone knows:
? Healthy intimacy works between the two: each couple will decide what it means. For some, it may be having sex every day, for others, once a week. Does it turn out that not everyone connects? In the same way; couples are a separate world and no one has the right to say how many times you have to do everything (not just sex).
? Usually one is more in need than the other: it means that it is likely that it is one who almost always takes the initiative, who seeks to have fun, fantasize, use toys, etc. Do you have more or less? This is not to say that someone doesn’t like their partner, but that not everyone is the same. The challenge is to find the balance so that the protagonist is not always the same.
? Sex doesn’t just happen in the bedroom: will a more traditional culture say the only place?Having sex is in marital bed, but not quite. At this point, we can accept what the magazines say, that is, that it is worth using. other rooms of the house from time to time. And not only in intimacy, but also of kisses, caresses, beautiful words and displays of affection. If the text says: Do you have enough relationships, you can also look at it from the point of view. view of romance or love.
? Having sex isn’t just about reaching orgasm: another of the most common test topics. It is thought that if the two partners do not reach the climax, then sexual intercourse “does not count”. This is certainly a very limited perspective. It is also necessary to include kissing, caressing, touching, “flavoring”, that is, enjoying the encounter, which tends to be increasingly rare today due to obligations and stress.
Most couples who have been together for a while live in different times, if it is true that at first passion floods everything, over the years it becomes another feeling, that of pure love. For what? Because they know each other better, they have been explored several times, they know the tastes of others, they accept the way they are, etc.
So, if you’re reading an article that says that for a couple to be okay, you need to have sex Monday through Sunday, keep in mind that it’s not “ideal. “This may be possible for some (fortunately to say it) but it is very difficult to maintain this behavior over time, respect your relationship and do not let so-called research tell you how much passion there should be between your leaves, live unforgettable moments with your partner far beyond what others think and, above all, enjoy their relationship , setting aside those imposed by the company.