? Never forget who you are; The rest of the world won’t forget. Use it as armor and you’ll never get hurt. Who did this was Tyron Lannister for Jon Snow in the fifth episode of the first season of Game of Thrones.
Forgetting who we are, our history, our past, makes us vulnerable, this whole story is an experience and a knowledge and is therefore an opportunity to learn, both from the world and from ourselves. we want to become, no matter how much it hurts or presses us.
- As much as we want to forget where we come from.
- Hide a past that embarrasses or hurts us.
- Or ignore our limits.
- There are things that will never change.
- The first is that it will continue to be.
- It hurts the one who hurts.
- Because you simply cannot change.
- The second is that even if we don’t want to see.
- The others will.
- This way.
- The more we try not to look.
- The more damage it can cause us will increase.
By accepting your weaknesses, you not only have the opportunity to become stronger, but you also eliminate the possibility of someone using them against you. You have to face your flaws and weaknesses and laugh at yourself so that when someone tries to do it, you feel represented and caricatured, so it’s good that you immerse yourself in something essential: getting to know each other.
This self-knowledge job will open the door to developing all the skills you need to become the person you want to be and let you discover what you really want for yourself.
In addition, thanks to this work of self-knowledge, you will be able to discover which of your behaviors are inherited from your family environment. Remember that many of the things we do or believe are nothing more than a legacy of a past that lurks. prevents us from evolving. It is the way children pay for the sins of their parents.
When they know each other, they may be aware of their own identity, their own values, their own aspirations, in this way they will be able to face their weaknesses and limitations, they will also be able to bring out their strengths and abilities, many of which may have been condemned in the shadow of their weaknesses or past.
By knowing yourself, you can learn to react to events, not only by developing new skills, but also by learning how to handle the way you act and manage problems.
“When you accept your weaknesses, no one can use them against you. “This also told Tyrion to Jon in the same scene. And he was right. If they know each other well, they will no longer be manipulators, their weaknesses will no longer be a weapon of attack, and they will become a defense to confront anyone who wants to go against them, which will strengthen self-confidence and self-esteem.
If they know each other well, if they know what their weaknesses are, they will be able to control the anger caused by their weaknesses, they will be able to forgive anyone who can be responsible for it, and they will be able to accept their responsibility for what they have done. But above all, you can decide what will happen from now on.
Recognizing your weaknesses and accepting your limits, you have all the cards on the table, they may not be the best cards, but they are the ones you have, and they are the ones you have to play with. don’t play your cards, someone else will play for you, but for your benefit, not yours. It’s smarter to take them and not let anyone else decide for you.