Why is it so hard for people to understand us?Why can’t they understand our mood swings? For one simple reason: no one can put themselves in your place.
But don’t get confused. This also happens to you. Experiences, what a person really lives and suffers, only he knows, although you can understand it, you will never get to live like her, to feel in your own skin, to put yourself in the place of the person.
- My course will always be different from yours.
- My shoes will never be the same size as yours.
- No one will be able to put themselves in my shoes.
- Just as I will never be able to put myself in their place.
On several occasions we wanted to relieve or cure the pain of another person who was suffering and how we would like them to do the same for us!That someone can come and free us from the pain that makes us completely unhappy.
Unfortunately, it is something that also makes us live things for ourselves, to live them in our own skin, so that we can remain completely different people, full of experiences.
Each of us must suffer if necessary. It sounds hard to say, but we will have many negative experiences that will make us cry, that will depress us, that will really make us suffer.
Going through them, overcoming all this pain, will allow us to grow and move on. Pain is not negative, it is an additional feeling, because we are beings full of emotions and feelings.
“Pain must be heard. There’s no need to exhaust the pain. “
? Bernardo Stamateas?
It’s clear that people can understand what’s happening to you because you’re suffering, but what they can understand is only a small part. Actually, the main thing is you who live and experiment.
You must feel this pain, you must suffer it and express it to heal yourself. As Bernardo Stamateas says, “There is no need to exhaust pain. “If you have to cry until there are no more tears, do it. If you have to hurt until you reach the limit, it hurts. Yes, this is your life and no one can put themselves in your place. Keep in mind that no one can put themselves in the place of others.
Sometimes we try to disguise that we are going through a bad time, so as not to draw attention or give it importance, sooner or later everything comes to light.
Even if you don’t want to, you’ll explode, no matter how much you repress, eventually you’ll show up. Maybe not the way you wanted it, but it was your fault. You must eliminate this pain, you must allow his wound to heal well.
Ignoring what you feel won’t solve the problem, it will only take you forward until it falls by its own weight.
If you don’t express how you feel, if you don’t talk to someone you trust and don’t vent, you don’t want people to put themselves in your place, even if no one can. you’ll be aware of what’s going on if you don’t talk, you don’t express yourself, people may have an idea, but it may not be the right one.
Although, as we have already mentioned, no one ever really gets in his place, the truth is that he can try, but only you are the one who lives it; they can only get close to what you’re going through.
It clearly won’t be the same, but it will allow people to understand you and you’ll have the support you need. There are certainly many shoulders ready to be wet by your tears, there are certainly many outstretched hands so that when you fall, you can get up.
No one can ever put themselves in your place, but they will be able to understand and value the situation you are going through, even if you understand it perfectly, the path and the pain are yours, you are the only person who is going through this, only you will overcome it.
“Isn’t pain the problem, the problem is emotions that don’t heal?
? Bernardo Stamateas?
Speak, express your pain, share it, but don’t seek instant relief, because everything has its time, look for some light on this path that is now dark, try to make people understand your problem even if they can’t put themselves in place.
All this will allow you to heal your pain as quickly as possible, it is better than ignoring it, it is better than waiting for the time to heal, it is better than wanting people to put the place in your place without really knowing what you are going through.