It is a fact that relationships change and love ends, knowing this, it is natural to accept that at some point it moves from a first plan to a second or even to a third; however, it doesn’t make so much sense that these changes happen overnight, or in a relationship in which there is supposedly love.
When we live this in our own skin, we start structuring a mind map to find out what causes the person has left behind us. Obviously, the direct consequence of thinking too much about this story is very simple: we end up making a movie. we don’t even believe in ourselves.
- We try to apologise to the person who ignores us.
- Acts differently and even makes us feel bad.
- We spent nights of wakefulness.
- Breaking our self-esteem.
- Saying goodbye to pride and turning our self-esteem into crumbs.
In the end, the scenario before us ends up being regrettable: we destroy ourselves and whoever we have, or we had by our side, allowed it and even increased the damage, however, you may even be on the ground, but there’s nothing like touching the bottom to get to the surface.
When you realize you’re spending time without worrying about that person, you realize that you have to take some time for yourself, if you cultivate this relationship you can create a network of healthy exchanges that you can never achieve. destroy again.
It all comes down to someone who is unable to avoid their suffering does not deserve their love, is that love does not include prominence, ideas or pride, in these cases we have to make a beach with a grain of sand, which contributes to self-destruction.
Love is complicity and companionship, which means being able to trust the other, loving also implies a responsibility, that of making the bad times more bearable, of enjoying good things, of walking hand in hand and accompanying. When everything else fails, is it something wrong?
“When you’re in a relationship and you realize that, being able to avoid your suffering, the other doesn’t, is it because it’s all over?
The fact that pride, tasks, or interests are more valuable than your well-being indicates that something is really wrong in between.
It is understood, with this point and precedent, that what you need is not “impossible” things, that is, they do not even respect the basic principles of a relationship: dedication and gratitude.
You don’t share much more. Not because you don’t want it, but because everything comes before you two, or rather you. The person has no interest in making you feel special, nor in keeping alive the flame of love.
You may feel that person closer to you in good times than bad times, although it’s also likely that I’ll never be by your side, regardless of the circumstances, what else do you need to realize something’s wrong?
There’s no point in moving mountains for someone who doesn’t move a stone for you, it’s time to start giving absences to those who don’t value what they have, do you release and release your emotions?