Many people spend their entire lives in a business, but they never hold the positions they want, nor do they get the recognition or acceptance they think they deserve, whether it’s from their peers or bosses. And you keep repeating this typical phrase?
In general, they consider that the problem is always with those around them, as they do not understand or accept it as it is, moreover, they feel that they are the envy of all those who have not been so qualified. or smart as they think they are.
- This type of person strongly defends his way of being and devotes a lot of effort.
- Energy and time to thinking about everything that happens to him.
- Believes that he does not accept it.
- Or does not understand it.
- Without even trying.
- Have a little empathy or understanding with others.
- They are so blinded by understanding that they never put the the place of others.
But it’s just lip sync, because they don’t really do anything to get this “best job, salary or job” they think they deserve. Aren’t they trying to go out and show their qualities, rather the other way around, they don’t even do the simple work they currently have, because they consider this job inferior to their abilities?They don’t understand that the only way to get a promotion is to show 100% preparation, and that only happens by pointing out to others our talent, not our disgust.
That’s another big mistake. A smile, like a key, can open almost every door; If you are upset, depressed or moody, everyone around you will feel uncomfortable and you will always be perceived as a negative target in each group Remember that in your work people pay for a version of you?solve problems. The payment is not intended to bring your personal problems and frustrations to the office.
Only when you become the best version of yourself will you accomplish all the things you consider worthy; otherwise, you will be trapped in a spiral of discontent that will plunge you more and more into your own discontent with the world. you want your life to be different, do something different with your life.
A great man once said to me, “Do household problems stay at home and work problems stay at work?