Loving without being loved can become one of the most difficult experiences we can have in our lives, it is a time when one feels abandonment, sadness and a feeling of emptiness that becomes unbearable, we cannot want to love without paying the high price of the consequences that this has.
When love is reciprocal, we experience paradise standing, and that wonderful feeling that we can do anything, without worrying about anything else.
- But loving without being loved has another side.
- Which presents itself as if life suddenly no longer makes sense.
- As if everything built and lived before has already lost all its value.
- Dreams and desires crumble.
- Opening the door to bitterness.
The natural tendency we have in loving is to feel an unbridled attraction to the beloved, impossible to stop without suffering.
The disappointment and pain we go through can destroy lovers, leaving them lost in despair and a deep sense of not being able to find someone else.
This feeling is very common, because it belongs to the sadness that creeps, to the despair and limitation of what we can see, in this situation that ends up becoming very dramatic, however, those who have gone through this process and have experienced all the sadness and loneliness that flows from not being loved know very well that over time , the limitation with which they have lived tends to increase.
They learn to live in a different, stronger way and with the experience that it is possible to find joy and happiness, in spite of everything, since our identity and our desire to live do not really depend on anyone, only ourselves.
Loving, in any case, will always be worth it, because it is a sign of life. A unique experience that changes our world and the way we see things. We acquire a special sensitivity to appreciate and value any act of love. Beauty becomes more intense and our emotions more recognizable, making it easier to identify them.
When we love, share our intimacy, recognize the purity of knowing how to love, discover aspects we didn’t know we had, and gain greater knowledge of ourselves.
By loving, we are essentially open to giving our best, which shows us the immense beauty we have and how privileged we are to have experienced love in all its splendor.
Love reaches those who are prepared, to the people who are at a time in their lives when they can afford to incorporate that feeling into their whole being. The fact that love settles in us is a great privilege, no matter who we love and whether we are reciprocal or not. Love, in itself, is worth it, for all that it brings to our lives.
To love you need a particular predisposition to sentimental openness. There must be an internal connection, with a sensitivity that allows us to embrace the sensations of all that love makes us known.
When love comes and we do not understand the cause, we must understand that it is nobody’s fault, and that nothing concrete has given us this capacity to love.
We simply have to understand that it is a feeling that, as it has come, can disappear and, for the duration, we must enjoy it, live it, experience it; without fear or mistrust. We must let ourselves be loved in order to love, which means letting all our energy flow, feeling that we are worthy to love.
For love is a state of purity, our flame more intense, the breath of the soul; the piercing breath that gives meaning to our lives?