Our life is made of choices, not always sweet, not always bitter.
Often our choice will mean that we have to leave behind something that is already true, that is part of our journey, in order to move in other and new directions, this decision-making will never be easy and, when it comes to detachment, “abandonment “Then everything will get worse, because what we decide can change things, with no return.
- No one is free to suddenly find themselves faced with a tempting proposal of work.
- To study.
- To be invited to undertake new projects somewhere.
- In another city.
- In another country.
- Just as no one is free to feel bored and dissatisfied with the life he leads.
- Pointing to a life totally opposite to that which he had until then.
- Whether by personal proposals or dreams.
- The desire for change can arise at any time.
At the moment, many of us will face a great dilemma, because in the opportunities this may not be possible for anyone but us, that is, we will have to choose whether or not we accept a new trip, but leaving a partner. , home, friends, a whole previous life, it is as if we start from scratch, even if our life is already full, including the heart, then accepting the new will mean a lonely journey, only with us, nothing and no one else.
The thing is, we don’t have a duty to wait for each other while he’s realizing his dreams, without us, indefinitely, do we passively look, as mere spectators on the other side of the screen, at the achievements we could achieve?And we must enjoy together, unless we want to. The long physical distance eventually causes an emotional withdrawal, the cooling of the emotional load, because one simply gets used to presence and absence. It’s survival.
In fact, the longer we live, the more choices we have before us, the more resignations, gains and losses we will accumulate, because this is how life acts, shakes, incites, promotes the new, but almost never silently. It will always be painful, simply because, when choosing something, something will be overlooked. We must be clear about the true importance of everything and all that are part of our journey, so as not to leave behind precisely what nourishes our souls.
As they say, the line moves, and moves for both the advancing and those who finish it. We can go, yes, but when we get back nothing can be the same as before.