I don’t know what I’m going to do to get out of that hole I’m in, life sometimes fills our roads with fog and even makes me think and feel like the world can end tomorrow, but I know. this feeling is the result of blindness caused by all these emotions and negative thoughts that come to me, inside, I know for sure that I can get out of this, because I felt this other times, because I handled it from other times.
There are many situations that now, in the distance, make me think that I have overcome enough to face the danger that they have really assumed, in those moments the greatest drama that ever existed was the one I recreated in my mind. However, there are still many beliefs and views that I have to discuss and in which I somehow have to find peace.
- I will succeed.
- Whenever I take a chance.
- As long as I face my fears and do so by rejecting the idea that they are a reason to surrender.
The endings are awful. The sadness that appears at the end of our favorite series or book, the fear that overwhelms us when it comes to the possibility of ending a relationship and destroying the idea of that love for life, provokes the feeling that we are trying. to avoid at all costs.
However, it also prevents us from making decisions that will benefit us. For example, it is not negative to end a relationship to which, in fact, we are joined only by memories; a relationship that can still do us a lot of harm. Despite this, we believe otherwise and maintain our position, supported by a false sense of loyalty to each other, while betraying ourselves.
Sometimes finishing or leaving something is not our decision, sometimes it is the circumstances that force us to close a cycle and do it again without giving us the opportunity to postpone that moment, it is a blow to us because we are not prepared and it is not something that we really want.
Anything that is lasting, eternal and guaranteed is considered good, quite the opposite is considered negative, this has been taught to us from a young time, which has caused this tendency to cling to different objects, situations and people, so it is so difficult to let go, let go and make decisions that involve an end.
I will be able to close this door that will open new and better possibilities, I will be able to observe the failures as personal successes.
It ends near a cycle, that’s true. Steps that end without return. It will not be possible to rewind the tape, there is no possibility of the past being present again, however, we are not aware that every ending also implies a beginning: our blind fear this reality. It’s a great opportunity to think about taking new paths with the strength that this experience has brought us.
We reject those beliefs that affirm that every end is the realization of failure. It brings us nothing but frustration and great anguish that paralyzes us and prevents us from moving forward, damages our self-esteem and we end up thinking that there is some kind of black magic quite strongly. to put an end to any worthwhile project.
We have greater resistance than we think, a great ability to take the pulse from the depths of our being. There were many moments in the past when we thought it was all over for us, but at least we expected it, new opportunities arose.
It hurts to finish a situation in which we were happy, that gave us so many good times, we get used to the safety provided by the routines, this does not leave the everyday, what reassures us and with the certainty that everything will be fine.
We are very used to our comfort zone: cozy, quiet, friendly, you feel very comfortable there, but there is also the moment when you spend too much time there is a stagnation. In addition, as sure as we want, adversity, problems, difficulties always expect us to test ourselves.
The comfort zone protects me, but from the outside, not from myself
So, after all this, I’m sure I’ll be able to see the most unpleasant circumstances as an opportunity and not as a disgrace, because after dodging several situations in which I’ve had to make decisions, sooner or later I’ll find myself facing a dead end where, yes or yes, I will test my determination.
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