One day, someone will hug you so tightly that all your broken pieces will tighten and, as your parts are recomposed, your regrets will disappear and you will smile again. Because of a hug.
The embrace is a caress, a poem written on the skin that comforts us and strengthens our emotional bonds, allowing our fears to dissipate, in one way or another, by dispelling the feeling of chaos, even if they do not solve our problems in practice, hugs fill us with strength.
- There are hugs that contain so much strength that they would break us.
- But they actually recompose us.
- Because in saying so poetically they give us emotionally.
- In fact.
- Although it is not the only way and although it is not.
- To this end.
- Hugs help us work on our empathy and also our emotional intelligence.
There are people and PEOPLE, we all agree on that, the people with which we get along best are the ones who make us feel belonging and love, the people with which we have the most affinities and who have emotional closeness, thoughts and beliefs.
“There are many reasons why we value those with whom we share opinions, experiences, and beliefs; among other reasons, this affinity gives us positive feelings.
In fact, usually when we love someone, that person also loves us (not sexually, of course). In fact, we can show ourselves more naturally, behave in a relaxed way, which makes us smile more and makes exchanges much more pleasant and pleasurable.
And this movement becomes a beautiful vicious circle: the more expensive you feel, the more you want the good of those who love us too. A determining factor of this particular affection is the demonstration of it through hugs, caresses and kisses.
These special people we are talking about must be the same people who were by our side in the good and the bad, especially in our worst moments, when we feel very bad about ourselves, they stayed by our side to give us a hug.
That is, the more bad we feel, the more discouraged we are and the more doubts about ourselves and the world, the more important are the hugs and expressions of interest and affection of those who have our gratitude and unconditionality.
“Let’s say somehow some kind of emotional admiration is created that promotes us to become more attractive to our PEOPLE.
Decidedly, the more broken, the more aware we are of what we expect from those we love, and from those who reserve a little bit of themselves to put us back together and show us all the love we deserve.
“It was the time she spent with her rose that made her special,” Saint Exupéry writes in “The Little Prince. “And it is one of the most important pillars of our relationship and how the hugs that come from our roses make up for our broken pieces.
Whether it’s many or a few of our agreements, it’s really exciting and attractive to assume that something special and unique unites us. Our GENS are the ones that make us think and feel that “he loves me for who I really am, not for my opinions or for his interests. “
It is the most rewarding and wonderful, the one that comforts us the most at a time when our interior is fragmented, because it reminds us that despite so many broken pieces, we are integral and irreplaceable people for those who embrace us.