There are pains that mark us and leave us stunned, there are losses that leave us not knowing how to act, you can be an orphan or a widow, but when you lose a child you realize that there are no words to define how you move. feeling It’s a pain that doesn’t have a name.
It’s a pain that hurts inside, because you’ve lost a part of yourself, a part you’ve built your life on. Everything loses its meaning; there is only guilt and disapproval, because he believes he should die before his son.
- These feelings are normal.
- Feeling this discomfort is common.
- Guilt and discomfort are the result of a series of negative beliefs that make you feel guilty about continuing to live.
“Don’t you want death, Harry, do you feel sorry for life, especially for those who live without love?
-J. K. Rowling-
The inner voice of our consciousness is intense in times of mourning, it is cricket, which usually helps us distinguish good from evil, can torment us, reminds us of everything that may have been and what it wasn’t, we blame ourselves for a past that is usually beyond our control.
Immersed in our pain, we asked ourselves, “What if I had woken up earlier?” I was sick and didn’t notice?”If I had acted differently?” But in reality, everything we’ve changed in the past wouldn’t have changed the end result. We don’t know when death will come and it’s irrational to try to find its meaning.
It’s hard to see the difference between guilt and responsibility and it’s hard to move on, guilt doesn’t make sense, it doesn’t make sense to try to understand why we don’t understand, we can’t accept it and we feel guilty.
Understanding the pain is the first step towards acceptance, this acceptance does not lead us to understand everything that loss is, because in most cases there is no explanation, it just happens.
?? Don’t the people we love ever walk away from us, just so they don’t forget them?
J. k. Rowling-
Guilt is one of the most difficult emotions to handle during the grieving process, but several procedures can help you overcome this pain.