Love is not enough, what we are looking for is a love that has “real flavor”. Permanence, but also unpredictability. We seek love in the people we give our own to, we also seek it in ourselves because we have to endure all our lives. What better way than to do it with love?
The thing is that love has to do with all our emotions: with the joy of knowing it, with sadness from a distance, with anger at betrayal, with fear of loss, with disgust at absence and with surprise (because no matter what experience we have). accumulate, there will always be something to learn. )
- People like us who accompanied us to go down to the depths.
- To take our hand in those moments when everything seemed lost: what we invested and what we aspired to before.
- Even in the present.
- That collapses into our own hands.
Because they have passed all these tests and carried the weight of hope with us, we can say that they are people who have given us their true love. Unconditional, with a trust filled with faith: because it moves not only mountains, but also hearts in systoles and diastoles. In laughter and (to) come from life.
It is the fact that we know the story that makes them smile with us, they saw us cry with rage, beating us in the void, covering ourselves from the blanket to the head, rejecting everything outside, including themselves.
On the other hand, people who like us do not take into account our masks, perhaps a stranger cannot distinguish which of our smiles hides joy and which brings sadness or nostalgia, is the fact that they have spent time with us and have given us the attention that gives them that power.
People who love us know the anger we can accumulate when we are overwhelmed by disappointment or when we feel betrayed, it is friends and family who come around us when our partner fails, so does our own partner when friends or family do.
He who loves us understands our anger and our afflictions; understands the reasons for sleepless nights and empty visits amid darkness; Besides, our own anger is usually yours, because when we trust, they trust too. it’s always a compass for the love of others.
Precisely because they understand our own anger, they know where to touch us, what springs exist in our own minds and our customs that can restore us to peace. A peace that has prevailed . . . What’s gone? Or what’s going on?No return. Also, when we are full of anger, we are generally not a pleasant companion and, in these cases, they prefer to really continue enjoying it than follow their own impulse to leave us.
The fact that someone can interpret our silences is perhaps the purest and purest test of love, for it penetrates into a deeper knowledge. Communicate through a look, caress, or hand gesture. Only those who have given us their love will be able to read everything we say without saying a word.
Because sometimes tearing the air with his voice is an extraordinary effort, maybe there is someone we don’t want to get naked with, maybe we don’t have the words, we believe that the one who loves us knows how we are and that with this information and the situation in which we find ourselves, no words are needed.
As we have seen in this article, only those who truly love us understand the pain we sometimes hide behind a smile, the love behind the anger we manifest, and the reasons that mask our silences. That’s why love is so precious, well.