It looked like a trapped insect. Drought, lack and emotional emptiness reigned in my heart, you fed me leftovers, with possessive love, with a house without furniture where the plants were not watered, however I thank you for your lack because I escaped from it to meet my nutrients, with my strengths, with my fullness?to finally attract abundance to my life.
From an emotional and even spiritual point of view, we can define abundance as a state of grace that reminds us that we have everything, or at least most of the things we want and need, is like vibrating at this ideal frequency where emotions are. adapted to thoughts, personal realization and every area that shapes our existence.
“Abundance is not a physical thing, it is something we can agree on, ” Wayne Dyer?
On the contrary, is poverty or scarcity a state of poverty?Being? Very common where we become resilient, where we lack mental and emotional openness to generate positive and rewarding changes. In this way, the “poor”, in addition to not having that inner harmony to feel satisfied and satisfied, generally has the subtle ability to project their emotional poverty into the people around them.
It is very likely that we have lived this situation throughout our lives: living with such a person (whether our partner, a family member or even the manager of our company) creates a climate of absolute scarcity and scarcity. realizing, we are trapped in amber, in this toxic resin, in this lack of nutrients to the point of leaving aside our main vitamin: dignity?
If we ask ourselves what is the main route or key strategy to attract abundance, the answer is very simple: emotional generosity. However, nothing is so complicated to implement, nothing has more nuances and dark corners than the concept of “generosity”.
What’s the reason? We are used to thinking only of our needs and when we feel this way it is very difficult to be able to ‘donate’. When we talk about emotional generosity, we do not refer exclusively to the act of opening up to others to connect with them, comfort them, relieve their pain, or brighten their hearts. Are we talking about being generous to ourselves, too.
Many of us have thought this way at some point in our lives: we focus our attention on everything we don’t have, everything we miss (don’t others recognize me, don’t they want me very lonely/misunderstood?). By intensifying these negative thoughts, we also feed frustration, discouragement, and resentment, the way we completely block the law of abundance.
Shouldn’t we focus exclusively on what we miss, what hurts us, what we don’t like?We must be courageous and take the first step to achieve all that we deserve, because that is where the true abundance is.
There are times in our emotional relationships when we feel full, as William Blake said, we see the world in a grain of sand, the sky in a wild flower and infinity in the palm of our hand, is certainly abundance. , perfect balance, ideal harmony where your emotions and mine, your projects and mine, your values and mine harmonize and make up the most beautiful poetry, ours.
“Abundance is neither a number nor a success. Does Alan Cohen just recognize our competition?
We know that it is not easy to reach that ideal state of abundance, emotional imbalance and lack of generosity, both with ourselves and with our partner, breaks the alliance of abundance within a couple relationship, many times we throw ourselves into the arms from anyone, with hungry hearts and blindfolded wanting to be loved, but completely forgetting to love ourselves.
One ceases to be generous to oneself to feed the other to fall into the circle of poverty, into the cell of scarcity. You might think that feeding on crumbs isn’t bad, is it something?We’re so happy we even forgot about that. We wanted everything. Above all, we forget that love is synonymous with abundance, that those who love it enrich and who “love, care for themselves”.
Remember that we have the responsibility and privilege to be the creators of our happiness, to attract abundance, and this is done from the inside out. Because it is an emotion that encourages us to take care of ourselves, to be worthy of joy, balance and that love that, instead of hurting us, helps us to grow.
All images in this article belong to Sonia Koch.